Good video clip. What he sdays is true. If you don't cave to the haters, they will move on in a short time. All it takes is to stand your ground. A very simple statement and thought. Extremely difficult to do. As the gentlemen says we are conditions to alleviate pain not encourage it.
I tend to naturally stand firm, many many years of experience tells me this is the correct thing to do.
If you are wrong say so and move on. If you are right say so and move on. If they won't let you move on, go around them but don't ever give and inch if you are right.
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Their should be rules in any fight. That is called civilization. Don't use nasty words. Do not mention body parts. And stick to the subject rationally. This works not only in a marriage but in your public life also. I know this works. I live by it. It isn't easy, but it has wonderful results.