Why Do We Judge Parents For Putting Kids At Perceived — But Unreal — Risk?
Posted by CircuitGuy 8 years, 4 months ago to Culture
"Children need to explore and experiment and be on their own sometimes in order to develop independence and responsibility and self-efficacy. By keeping them under our direct supervision at all times, we sacrifice that, and we narrow their world in profound ways."
"Here's an analogy: Imagine that parents suddenly have a phobia that their children are going to fall down and hit their heads and die while walking, running, climbing or playing sports. When such an injury or death happens anywhere in the country, it is covered 24/7 by the media; shows such as CSI: Head Injury Unit and Law and Order: Running and Falling Down draw big audiences. Some parents decide that just to be on the safe side, they're going to require their kid to stay in a wheelchair all the time. Gradually this practice becomes so widespread that it becomes standard, and schools and camps start requiring all children to be in wheelchairs at all times for safety reasons. Eventually, it becomes so unusual to see a child not in a wheelchair that people start calling the police when they see a child walking around, and parents are charged with criminal negligence for allowing their child to take such risks."
"Here's an analogy: Imagine that parents suddenly have a phobia that their children are going to fall down and hit their heads and die while walking, running, climbing or playing sports. When such an injury or death happens anywhere in the country, it is covered 24/7 by the media; shows such as CSI: Head Injury Unit and Law and Order: Running and Falling Down draw big audiences. Some parents decide that just to be on the safe side, they're going to require their kid to stay in a wheelchair all the time. Gradually this practice becomes so widespread that it becomes standard, and schools and camps start requiring all children to be in wheelchairs at all times for safety reasons. Eventually, it becomes so unusual to see a child not in a wheelchair that people start calling the police when they see a child walking around, and parents are charged with criminal negligence for allowing their child to take such risks."
My kids? Their school lacked bicycle racks and my wife insisted they be taken by car even when they could have taken a bus.
After school I'd help a friend with his newspaper route and have money to go buy comic books.
So I'd peddle blocks and blocks and blocks and blocks to a soda fountain/drug store. Anyone remember those?
My mother would not worry about me unless I made it home by supper (or dinner in redneck sprechen). I liked supper. So I always made it home.
When I was tricycle age, I told my mother I was running away from home.
Mother said, "Bye."
Kinda surprised by that reaction, I left. I did not take the trike because it was too hard to peddle uphill.
I got about two blocks before I wondered how I would eat.
When I came into the house, my mother said, "Hi." I went and found something to do until suppertime.
When a nice police officer pulled up to me and asked me if I was lost, I told him no. I got into his car and directed him right back to my house.
My mother was ecstatic to get me back home...until the officer left. That's when I (and my behind) learned that the "Leave It To Beaver" show was fantasy.
about 3, we moved from the woods in Roanoke
County to Augusta County, because my father had
gotten a job in Waynesboro, (Va.) We lived on a
blacktop road, and my brother started leaving home and going down the blacktop. In one case
(I didn't see this, I just heard about it), our father
went down and switched him home; that is, he
followed him, switching his legs. I still wouldn't
let a child of mine that little go on a blacktop
road alone. I think I would give him a spanking.
Better a temporary pain on the buttocks than
permanent death.
Mother said, "Oh, you want something to cry about?"
She gave him three sharp pops on the rear and he ran off screaming, "Whaaaa!"
Mom continued to do whatever she was doing as if nothing had happened.
I made a mental note to self like "Do not go up to Mom crying unless to can show you need a band-aid or have a bruise."
I recall the integration of the schools in the mid fifties, and how the adults worried about it and the kids just accepted it, and there were few problems where I lived.
Castigating the Fifties is a spectator sport now, but I am so glad I grew up then and have my head screwed on straight, to recall a phrase.
One does not miss freedom until it is gone (said lots of ways), and I dearly miss it. And will continue to miss it as we continue losing it.
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For decades NPR has been preaching socialist rubbish, encouraging teachers to train little comrades, and pushing morality in this meddling direction, but now the public is supposed to be to blame.
Meddling statist looters.
Ignore everything that NPR vomits out on the airwaves and you will be infinitely better off.
If you met the person who helped us on our farm and also helped herself to a lot of our stuff, you would like her, too. Some crooks are Really Nice Friends until you cannot figure out where you put your chainsaw that you thought was right there in the garage. And you thought you had 20 rabbits, but half of them are gone, and the "friend" says she was cleaning the pens and they "ran away". And your medicine cabinet is strangely empty of the strong prescription painkillers.
Then he'd have 7 9mm holes in his chest.
I've gone round-and-round asking term2 to explain what PC is. He patiently explains, and I end up knowing nothing more. Is there a premier for people who don't believe in it? Maybe I am a PC liberal. I do not know. I ranted a little about it here: https://www.galtsgulchonline.com/post...
I think I just disagree that PCness even exists. Thanks anyway, even if I never get it.
Examples:
Racism. Racism by any objective standard is treating someone else differently simply because they look different. Racism by PC standards is white entitlement and black oppression. It is the cause of the BLM movement. Real racism was the beginning of the labor unions, who were facing competition for road construction contracts. Real racism was the beginning of abortion and Planned Parenthood via Margaret Sanger.
Honesty. Honesty by any objective standard is equating reality with reality. Honesty by any objective standard exists regardless whether or not there is a law to punish dishonesty. Honesty by PC standards is quite simply if you don't get caught, it's okay. And it's not even that, really, it's whether or not you get convicted. Honesty by PC standards is embodied in the Clinton Foundation.
Religion. Religion by objective standards means actually living what you believe and believing in universal truths. Religion by objective standards involves a third party as judge and arbiter of truth. Religion by PC standards is where people appoint themselves as judge and arbiter, twisting and changing their views based on whatever happens to be popular or seemingly beneficial at the time.
Education. Education by objective standards means the process by which one acquaints himself/herself with reality. Education by PC standards is nothing more than picking and choosing which information to present as reality, relying on the ignorance and subservience of the student. Education by objective standards means allowing people to independently confirm truth, knowing it to be what it is. Education by PC standard asserts the stance of the ivory tower and that all knowledge must be disseminated at the benevolent whim of the elites.
Journalism. Journalism by objective standards mean reporting on what happened. Journalism by PC standards means selectively choosing to ignore stories that don't match with one's personal views. It also means presenting editorial as "fact". The worst cases of PC journalism are when the news purveyors actually ignore the truth and present bald-faced lies as truth. This is what the mainstream media has largely devolved into.
To summarize, to be PC is to choose to ignore reality and to instead insist that reality is what one wishes it to be, not what one is. To be PC is to engage not only in self-deception, but to then present that deception to others.
Racism is treating people differently because of how they look. The PC-version is entitlement and oppression. Those are similar. Maybe you're saying the PC-version dwells on racial identity politics. That's something I'm strongly against.
Honesty In your view PC = dishonest.
Religion: PC people appoint themselves to be judge and arbiter of religious issues, you say, whereas no PC look to a third-party. I am very PC about religion by your definition.
Education - I don't understand, but I think you're saying PC is letting your cultural biases influence your view of reality. By this definition, almost no one tries to be PC, but everyone is a little PC. The same is true about your view of Jouranlism
"to ignore reality and to instead insist that reality is what one wishes it to be"
This is a common behavior. I think we're adapted to fall into this trap unless we use critical thinking. PC, by this definition, is ancient.
Racism. Racism is inherently seeing someone as lower than you are because of appearance. Followers of political correctness attempt to blame others for being racist when they in fact harbor deep bias and resentment - especially toward blacks. See Dinesh D'Souza's latest "Hillary's America" for a very eye-opening expose' on the Democratic Party. If you can remain a Democrat after seeing the history of racism in the Democratic Party and how that history continues today, you can in no way call yourself an Objectivist. And I'm dead serious here.
Honesty: spot on. PC'ers are dishonest because they choose to adhere to the worldview that their perception is and determines reality rather than the other way 'round.
Religion: It isn't that people don't get to choose their religion, it is that PC-ers view religion itself and the underlying standards thereof as if they are constructs of man rather than God. It's inherently contradictory - regardless of one's view of religion. If you believe in God, you don't also get to believe that man gets to overrule God when God's rules are inconvenient. It isn't in forcing people to choose religion, it's in the way that religious mores are adopted and preached.
Education. It's far more than a cultural bias. It's an outright attempt to control and indoctrinate based on the PC-ers' fantastical view of the world. Common Core is the ultimate in PC education. In mathematics, the method by which one solves the problem is now more important than arriving at the correct answer. Also in mathematics, if one doesn't use the most obtuse, ridiculous methods for counting and solving math problems, one is graded down - regardless the fact that standard methodologies are at least 10x faster and more intuitive. In History, teachers no longer teach concepts like the Constitution or the American Revolution, but now spend more of their time teaching about all the imagined wrongs perpetrated on other nations by America. In English, instead of reading great works of literature and poetry with an emphasis on traditional values, students are now forced to read modern-day stories espousing progressive mantras such as homosexuality, liberation theology, and recreational drug use. I can go on and on. I have several children in the public schools and their homework just makes me want to scream sometimes.
Journalism. Again, it's far more than mere bias, it's open dishonesty. It used to be that journalists reported on what was going on regardless of who was involved or being exposed and regardless of whether or not it played into what was acceptable to the elites. Of all the facets of life, journalism is the one most affected by and thereby reflective of what effects the nonsense of PC has had on our culture. No longer are journalists willing to skewer any political office-holder, now they openly take sides, frequently choosing to ignore even major stories (like the Clinton Foundation's pay-for-play with the State Department) in favor of minor stories like word-mincing or nude exposes of candidates' spouses.
The problem is that PC should not be a common behavior! It shouldn't be an acceptable behavior at all - let alone the one by which a nation founded on the principles of equality, property rights, personal responsibility, and opportunity is run! The PC mindset is a mindset of willful deception and the propagation of deception.
be abolished. Government is force. Its justification
is to protect man from force (including fraud) and
violence. Whatever has nothing to do with these
functions is not a legitimate government function. Also, education (especially the educa-
tion of children) teaches thought processes, and
that is something the government should defin-
itely NOT be in charge of. Because it ultimately
must lead to government thought control. I don't
think that it is reformable from within. It should
simply be taken away from government, and
privatized.
fraud) and violence", I meant to add, "and to pun-
ish same."
I understand the religion one, but I am PC (by your definition) about religion. I believe humans overrule gods. I call this humanist, but I can accept other words for it. This one makes sense to me.
I don't know if it relates to PC, but it absolutely blows my mind the extent people go to to politicize an education standard. I see none of these problems with Common Core. I'm not qualified to evaluate its merits, but the politicization of it is amazing. But that's getting off the topic. Assuming those bad educational practices were happening somewhere, why does one word/philosophy tie them together? It sounds like a disjointed list of bad practices.
I see the bias in Journalism, but I don't see it as new, needing a word, or driven by an overarching philosophy. Many media outlets are corporately owned, so they're often going to reflect the interests of managers of corporations and their customers (including gov't). I guess we could call them "elites", although I resist that b/c it implies there a clear group of people who are bad imposing this problem on the good guys. Journalists are just people, with the normal foibles of being human. They probably try to report just the facts. It's easier to condemn corporate bias than it is to produce pristine facts-only journalism. I have come to accept that it's produced by humans who need to write a story or need to sell ad space to companies, and I'm just mindful that no one outlet will give me the whole picture.
Other people have patiently tried to explain it to me. I get the concepts of racism, humanism, crappy education, and bias in journalism. I don't see how they're tied together. I do understand the definition from the 90s where people say "growth opportunities" instead of "failings". When people use it in this new sense, it goes right over my head.
I'll be blunt: YES - if you subscribe to PC, you are a racist. Are there others who aren't necessarily PC who also are racist? Perhaps, but they aren't forming political parties. Here are some examples of PC policies and how they specifically target blacks:
1. Abortion. Margaret Sanger (founder of Planned Parenthood) wanted to exterminate blacks. She talked to the KKK about how to get blacks to have abortions and paid black ministers to okay abortions to their congregations. The vast majority of PP facilities are in predominantly black neighborhoods. And Hillary Clinton has openly praised Margaret Sanger.
2. Minimum wage hikes. The group most affected by minimum wage hikes are blacks and youth (especially black youth) who can no longer find jobs. And because they can't find anything productive to do, they join gangs and get involved in illegal activities and wind up in jail.
3. Rent controls. These create slum districts which are disproportionately populated by blacks. Even Barack Obama in his book admitted that these were the modern-day equivalent of plantations.
4. Unions. Believe it or not, but unions were created when white-owned road construction companies were getting underbid by black-owned companies so they passed a law a hundred years ago mandating minimum wage standards for road construction crews. The entire intent of Davis-Bacon (which is still on the books, BTW) was to remove price competition by black-owned construction companies.
5. Welfare. This one has probably done more to contribute to the disintegration of the black family than anything else. Welfare pays single mothers, enabling the men to avoid their obligations as fathers. And the single largest factor in predicting future incarceration is growing up without a father, of which 2/3 of current US black households do. Blacks point to racial profiling and police brutality, but their real problem is not having fathers in the home.
And all of these policies are pushed by Democrats, not the least of which are Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson.
"I see none of these problems with Common Core. I'm not qualified to evaluate its merits"
I am. I have children in high school, middle school and grade school and I've seen the homework - even in a Red State. It isn't teaching any more. It's babysitting and obfuscation. People wonder why our math and science scores plummet and why we have to import engineers and scientists. If you had to base your math experience off Common Core, you'd give up math too! I have several friends who home school. They can get done in about three months in math what takes a middle- or grade-schooler nine months to learn in public schools. There is something very wrong with that.
"It sounds like a disjointed list of bad practices."
Yes, they are all bad practices, but they aren't isolated or happenstance. They are intentional and part of a broader initiative to control and indoctrinate the youth. It's much easier to control the uneducated.
"I see the bias in Journalism..."
Don't try to over-analyze. That there is bias in journalism is the result of Political Correctness.
"Journalists are just people, with the normal foibles of being human."
They start out as that, yes, but then they ascribe to PC and they adopt their foibles rather than seek to be objective. They know they are biased and they consciously choose to editorialize when they should be reporting.
"It's easier to condemn corporate bias than it is to produce pristine facts-only journalism."
Precisely. Most modern journalists are lazy. They are entertainers more than journalists.
I'm really lost. I thought we were talking about PC. What's that got to do with political parties? I don't read that many political articles, so it's like a I need a dummies guide to PC.
"Here are some examples of PC policies and how they specifically target blacks:"
I read the examples, but remember I don't know what PC means, so it's like me giving you a list of five Gelul policies that specifically target middle-aged geeks. You don't know what Gelul means or what why you should care which groups it targets.
"I've seen the homework"
Common Core does not dictate specific homework questions or even styles of questions. But this is off the topic. Sorry I started that. Regarding school problems, the only time I've ever been a party to a lawsuit was with my kids school, so I know something about this. :( My kids are now in the public school. It's working very well, but I've learned it can change on a dime. I have no illusions that it will keep working well.
"That there is bias in journalism is the result of Political Correctness."
Remember, I don't know what PC, so this has no meaning for me. I see bias as coming from human foibles, not a new ideology. Many of the media are corporate owned, so you they tend to know people who see things from that view. So we get a slight right-wing bias to mainstream news, not because think tanks masterminded an ideology adopted by journalists but just because of who owns them, who they tend to know in their networks, things they care about, etc.
"Most modern journalists are lazy. They are entertainers more than journalists."
Maybe you could get involved in journalism some way. The world needs people doing things right, so being excellent often pays. If you already do a blog or something like it I would read it.
I'm starting to think PC just means bad stuff. It's kind of like the word crap. Many things people describe as PC policies, I'd consider crap policies.
Being PC means not only deceiving one's self by refusing to accept the way things actually are (in reality), but ascribing to the notion that somehow if one can get enough others to buy into a similar deception that it makes the deception morally acceptable.
PC is way more than human foibles. It is embracing a lie and promoting that lie in the hopes that others' adopting that lie will make one feel better about living a lie.
If that doesn't help, I'm sorry, but there's not much clearer way for me to put things.
So it starts with some fact someone doesn't like. Maybe the fact is that their business is making enough money to keep the lights on but will never be saleable and lead to the exit they had planned. Or maybe they have an incurable disease. Instead of responding to that reality, PC people select people who don't recognize the reality. Then that group refuses to be around people who say otherwise.
For example, my company once worked with a startup struggling to get rid of the bugs and commercialize a medical technology. They had early adopters volunteering to try it, understanding it in the alpha testing stage. I said, "You need to get feedback from the market. You're heading into the Valley of Death. Once we get all known bugs fixed, investors will lose patience before we can commercialize it." Their co-founder said not ever to say Valley of Death. I said I was happy to be proven wrong. I said my company had no equity in it, but we just wanted to see him get a favorable exit. He just insisted we never say aloud, even with only the cofounders present, any mention of a funding gap in getting the technology to market. They eventually ran out of funding, and I don't think they even sold the IP to another firm. I'm not sure if they got any salvage value of it. After they failed, I asked a former employee of theirs if the co-founders were just lying to their vendors and potential acquirerers or what the deal was. He said they wanted what they were saying to be true and they surrounded themselves with people who agreed. They forbade people around them from saying the truth. Your word for this is they were being PC.
Of course I've also seen examples where I thought people were deluding themselves and they succeeded. These people, though, weren't PC. They listened to criticism, even if they did not accept all of it. PC, by your definition, is when you insist people around you not even say aloud some idea. I stay way from PC. There are so many projects in the world, there's no time even to be involved with the tiniest fraction. There's no need to spend time working on projects with people who can't even discuss the thorny issues.
The only PC-like practice is I follow is I insist people not talk about problems that they have no recommended action for. The action might be stopping a project. That's fine. But if they're simply talking about how bad something is without a single action we can take, that's just kvetching.
This is the first time I've had an understanding of PC is and why it's even a word.
A better example of PC is the gun control debate. All the facts show clearly that "an armed society is a polite society" (Heinlein). Yet you still have many progressives like Hilllary Clinton calling for federally-mandated gun control. Why? Because they aren't interested in reality. They want power. And they know that they can't get the level of power they want without being able to control people.
Another example? Trying to use Title IX to tell schools they have to allow children to select their own gender. Children (and especially teens) have enough problems growing up and trying to learn while their bodies change - they don't need these kinds of distractions. But that isn't the real goal. The real goal is to destroy the traditional morality that studies continue to show leads to significantly higher probabilities of being productive and self-sufficient - two things the government doesn't want!
Really, if you hear a politician talking, you should almost immediately start hearing PC. Look for the agenda they are trying to push and examine whether or not the agenda leads to more or less freedom for the People. If it leads to more government and more regulations, it's PC nonsense.
Every generation has seems to get more and more protected until you find a kid standing alone looking puzzled because someone forgot to tell him what he's supposed to be doing.
That kid has grown up and is now a young adult struggling with "adulting". They actually have a verb for operating without hoving parents.
There are children that are naturally prone to risky behavior, while others are cautious by nature. I was one of the latter, and had far more liberty than my comrades, who were mystified that I had my own house key, no curfew, and allowed to handle my own finances while still a young teen. My brother was quite reckless, and needed close supervision, which my parents diligently provided, much to his frustration. Parents should be allowed to make such decisions, as the state tends to a "one size fits all" approach, treating all children as stupid and reckless.
I don't know. My common sense and experience are out of step with mainstream though. Maybe we need more science, more dispassionate look at the perils. Things I did would be considered very dangerous now.
Be responsible for your own decisions and actions.
Whose sense do we rely on if not our own?
"who and who cares what they think?"
The only reason I care is when I help my kids ride the park on a Saturday where I played, it's like Children of Men now. It's unfortunate. There's still another park where kids play, with more parents nearby than when I was a kid, but at least some kids still ride their bikes there and find kids to play with. It's becoming a rarity.
My point is use your head and trust your judgement if unsure it isn't worth it so don't.
It's a sci-fi book and movie about a world where suddenly people couldn't have babies anymore and the schools and playgrounds were empty.
I can see the progression of this paranoia with a tattooed warning notice at the exit of every vagina stating, entrance into this world may cause death...
It was when I was a kid, but it's not anymore. It's sad on multiple levels, but the thing that hits me the most is that my 6- and 8-y/o kids would not feel comfortable to walk down the same street in Madison I did, knock on a friend's door, and find some random game to play. It would be a crime now if I let them do it. But it was an every-day thing just few decades ago. We watched TV when there was kids programming, but there usually wasn't, and we went to the park or hung out in some friend's basement. Now people see a 7-y/o as need constant hovering supervision. They must learn to go out and do things for themselves, take kiddie risks, face kiddie consequences.
I didn't get the tattooed warning thing. I'm only 41. Don't tell me kids aren't doing it anymore, hey. In a few years I don't want to hear my kids are just texting instead and not interacting in the physical world. OTOH, I don't want to hear if they're scamming (hooking up, or whatever they call it now) either.
The tattoo thing was a mimic of every stupid, "it's Obvious" warning label we find on everything these days, taken to the next level.
Personal question: do you get competing versions of a story, a thought or just the articulation of it, in your head prior to, during or after writing?
For me, it gets confusing and often the best version gets lost in translation from the mind, brain and pen to paper. I'm always second guessing myself.
That's why I wrote my first book...just to prove to myself I could do it and remain consistent. 100K sold must say something although I remain unconvinced.
I definitely relate to you "the best version was somewhere between my brain and the paper/keyboard, at which point I spend some time usually trying to recapture what I lost in translation (sometimes successfully, sometimes not).
About the only "trans-human" like improvement I would be tempted to employ is a USB from the right side of my brain direct to the keyboard or perhaps we might be able to do that with manmade quantum entanglements between the mind and the screen.
You'd only need to think and it will be written...on second thought, maybe that's not the best idea after all...laughing...
As a parent the one thing I will say in a non-joking manner on this topic is that we, as a society, have decided to coddle those who would victimize a child. We are starting to be told to try to be understanding to the ghouls (see recent Solon Mag coverage on this). This does result in a more dangerous environment for kids. Other than that, I say let them learn some lessons on their own.
Yes. I'd rather them blow all their money on something stupid as a child than as an adult.
http://www.nvic.org/vaccines-and-dise...
And look up how things went when religious beliefs stopped the vaccination programs in some African countries.
Besides the 1 or so per 1000 death rate from measles, there were other not so nice things that could happen, like blindness.
Let me know if you find any info about death from the vaccine that comes anywhere close to the death rate from measles.
Abaco knew a healthy 15 y/o who got sick and died after receiving a vaccination. I don't know if it was causal. He does not accept all the anti-vax paranoia out there, but he researched the issue and came to the opinion that vaccines are over-used.
I had both my kids get the full recommended schedule of vaccines because I don't agree with his opinion. But I don't think he's being idiotic about it.
Take smallpox vaccine which did the most to wipe out smallpox. It had five or so deaths from the vaccine a year in the US. The cost benefit ratio, in the USA, continuing to vaccinate until the chance of getting smallpox from the vaccination became noticable with respect to infection possibility and then vaccination was limited to those going to countries where smallpox was still endemic.
And had there been polio vaccine my mother would not have been crippled for the last 15 years of her short 33 year life.
Like Abaco, I am a man of math and science and other interesting things, so let him do his own replies, I am certain that he is capable.
What type of geek are you? Might be useful in the future for deciding what to reply to your posts. Check your premises on that geeky life style.
adays. And I think OSHA could be implicated in
it, too.
EDIT: correct a typo
We have noticed that although some private schools and church-run daycares will invite us in to do rides, nearly no public schools want us at all. Apparently they are afraid that something will go wrong, that someone will claim that a child got hurt.
We are back at my original understanding PC = generic straw man.
We could refute people's actual claims. In the straw man fallacy, we invent an easily-refuted straw man argument, refute it, and pretend we've refuted the actual claims. Anti-PC takes the fallacy to another level. We don't even need to invent a straw man. We just say the claims we disagree with rest on denying reality.
I'm saying something very similar to that. I'm not saying anti-PC attacks the person (ad hominem). I'm saying anti-PC assigns a bogus argument (namely PC) to a large number of unrelated policy ideas.
Take the idea of banning guns. I'm strongly against it. I know some of the arguments in favor it. None of them relate to a desire to deny reality, and they certainly don't relate to a mode of denying reality that relates to media relations, education, foreign aid, spending, etc. We should refute the real anti-gun arguments. It's easier to say their actual argument is they are anti-reality and we are pro-reality. That's easy, but it's not true.
Thanks for being so patient in explaining your view of PC. I'll tell you a funny modern example of retro 90s-era PC. My wife asked my kid's teacher about fine-tip and fat magic markers. The teacher said we don't use the word "fat" anymore; we call them "bold-line" markers. LOL. It was not a joke either. She's a young Boomer, and we're Gen-X. I think Boomers invented this old-school PC, and Gen-X rolled our eyes when it was new in 1990. They probably think my wife and I are vertically challenged. It makes me want turn on some Pearl Jam. I miss the 90s-era PC, which was silly but at least I understood it.
You say you'd rather have the 90's version of PC. It really wasn't any different, it just had fewer followers so it was easier to laugh at. It wasn't as pervasive in society and that was really the first generation who really started to get affected by the 1960's counter-culture. In the 90's, PC was just getting started. Now, a generation later it's mainstream and showing its true colors.
No, it's just that have very large comprehension opportunities and challenges. j/k LOL That was my attempt at 90s PC. Thanks for trying to explain modern PC.