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    Posted by Animal 9 years, 12 months ago
    I am an atheist, and I say "Merry Christmas" all the time. It's the name of the holiday. That is what the day is called, and that means "Merry Christmas" is an appropriate greeting for the season.

    A is A.
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    • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
      Yeah... I don't get where the angry atheist stuff is coming from. Angry about what?
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      • Posted by jimjamesjames 9 years, 12 months ago
        "Angry" atheists are no different than evangelical believers. They are not secure in their atheism so they want others to provide external validation for their thinking. Reminds me of what Roark said to Toohey when Toohey asked, "What do you think of me," "But I don't."
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        • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
          And believers think anyone who dares to pose a thought provoking question about the irrationality of faith is evil and going to hell. Believers get offended and loud (and scared in my opinion) at the uncomfortable thought that perhaps this is the only life there is. So much is based on fear of the unknown. Imo.
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          • Posted by jimjamesjames 9 years, 12 months ago
            Agreed. They can't accept that a "belief" is, by definition, not a truth (it can be if proved) or a fact (it can be if proved) and when confronted with a rational question, they become flustered because their only (most of the time) response is, "But the Bible says....."

            Faith: Belief without evidence in what is told by one who speaks without knowledge, of things without parallel. Ambrose Bierce

            Jefferson: But it does me no injury for my neighbour to say there are twenty gods, or no god. It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg.

            When I get to talk to a believer, I point out that, "Your God gave us the power of rational thought. I use it, you don't."
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            • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
              How about "If you believe your God gave you the power of rational thought why don't you use it?" :)
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              • Posted by jimjamesjames 9 years, 12 months ago
                Good one. But I would have to answer for them, that they don't use it because it would obliterate their "faith" and they would have to think and that hurts.....

                For me it's simple: I am an atheist because it makes sense; faith doesn't, by definition.
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                • Posted by $ AJAshinoff 9 years, 12 months ago
                  So by your measure "hope" and a spectrum of other anticipatory words has no definition either?

                  Faith and belief, regardless of what some who believe choose to believe, is very selfish. In fact, it could even be extremely rational and atheism irrational if you look at it in a certain way.

                  [I'm not proselytizing, just talking..I'm the last person to speak authoritatively about God]

                  Consider (key word) living as Christ instructed (or trying to) hurts no one and helps others (though not everyone). Further, having faith is insurance against the void IF God exists.

                  To deny something simply because you can't prove it because of your current perceptions is irrational IF the phase/perspective of your existence changes once you die. To discount something simply because you can perceive it can be considered closed minded when science is talking string theory, multiple dimensions, and god particles.

                  Again, I'm just putting out food for thought. I personally think God wants us to scrutinize and figure out as much as we can. Why else do we each have these exceptional minds.
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                  • Posted by jimjamesjames 9 years, 12 months ago
                    Pascal's Wager is an argument in apologetic philosophy[citation needed] devised by the seventeenth-century French philosopher, mathematician and physicist Blaise Pascal (1623–62). It posits that humans all bet with their lives either that God exists or not. Given the possibility that God actually does exist and assuming an infinite gain or loss associated with belief or unbelief in said God (as represented by an eternity in heaven or hell), a rational person should live as though God exists and seek to believe in God. If God does not actually exist, such a person will have only a finite loss (some pleasures, luxury, etc.).

                    My bet is, whether God exists or not, is that He is a kind-hearted being ( Christian believers tell me that He is) that will forgive me for using the rational thought He gave me.
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                    • Posted by $ AJAshinoff 9 years, 12 months ago
                      Thanks, I forgot the name of the wager. I wouldn't really call it apologetic (but I can see how some may) as much as a rational safeguard to preserve one's self in the event that an afterlife is true.

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                      • Posted by jimjamesjames 9 years, 12 months ago
                        As a main character in my world famous novel (800 copies sold on Amazon), Paris, Wyoming by Jim James:

                        “The problem with believing in an afterlife is that it contains the seeds of a belief in a--- what shall I say? A pre-life? Something before life? Something to exist, a creator of something greater than what can be shown or demonstrated... maybe the metaphor called God.”
                        “You don't believe in God?”
                        “The wonderful characteristic about a belief, about belief as a concept, is that if one believes, one is relieved of the burdens of relevance and rationale. Beliefs are not truth. Beliefs are not fact, but they are powerful. Beliefs are the glue that attaches us to something bigger, whether it is fact or not. And I believe in my God.”
                        “Your God? You have a different God than everyone else?”
                        “I accept that my God is not all powerful or even all good. This way, I don't have to excuse why innocent men and women and little babies die at the hands of evil people, why some debts are created and go unpaid forever. I choose my necessary fictions with some intelligence.”
                        “What do you mean?”
                        “When a man or woman says, ‘I’m a good human being, I am beautiful, my county or my child or my God is the best,’ all those beliefs are necessary fictions, all designed to make us feel good when, if we faced the facts, we would feel stupid or lost or worthless or insignificant.
                        “Why did your God allow the holocaust or slavery in America or the tens of thousands of human sacrifices throughout history? Those people were not just unwashed, faceless hoards. They were individuals—individual, little baby human beings who suffered beyond your ability to conceive of pain.” Marcel’s eyes filled again and he sat silent, breathing deeply.

                        “Well, I guess—”
                        “Don't bother, Jack,” he said, emotional exhaustion slowing his words. He picked up the cotton napkin, dabbed his eyes, then placed the napkin on the table. “Let me finish by saying that a wise man chooses his necessary fictions carefully because, if he is honorable, he will be held to live by them.”
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                        • Posted by $ AJAshinoff 9 years, 12 months ago
                          Nice, if thats how you look at God and why. I do not. I believe quite a bit of what happens on this planet is placed in our hands with only the Word to help guide us. Does God intercede? I lean yes, but only when it suit Him or some larger purpose for the whole of humanity (which I cannot see).

                          I loathe muslims, but I give them credit for one thing: the notion that god is neither good or bad and cannot be defined accordingly. To make that explains away quite a bit about 'why.'
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                          • Posted by jimjamesjames 9 years, 12 months ago
                            Good points. As to Muslims, I discount their existence except how they are ordered to convert me, enslave me, or murder me. Again, to belief: not fact, not truth, simply a belief. I will never understand (because I don't give a shit) why one wold CHOOSE to be a Muslim unless, of course I was male, liked to fuck little girls, murder my own family for a sick sense of honor, or found goats sexually attractive.

                            If one "feels" the need to have a God, why not choose one that improves everyone's quality of life at the expense of no one. The Muslim god (small "g") improves no one's quality of life except the pedophiles, brutes, non-thinkers and sexually sick sons of bitches.... Were I to choose a God, I would be polytheistic. More options.... and excuses.......
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                            • Posted by $ AJAshinoff 9 years, 12 months ago
                              mohammed used a religion to bind a migratory people LIKE the Christians did and the Jews. Before his epiphany he was a murderer and thief. He used and constructed his "religion" with the notion of validating his past conduct. Oddly enough, islam was initially against polytheistic religions and believed itself to be the next phase to follow Christianity. I have no idea how that could be considering the massive differences in basic philosophy.
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            • Posted by 9 years, 12 months ago
              And there you go being condescending. Plenty of faithful are rational thinkers. They merely start with a different premise.

              "Existence exists, and only existence exists. Existence is a primary: it is uncreated, indestructible, eternal." Sounds a lot like God to me.
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              • Posted by jimjamesjames 9 years, 12 months ago
                As Joseph Campbell said, God is a metaphor to answer the unanswerable questions.

                Again, from the same character in my world famous novel, Paris, Wyoming:

                “One of the many burdens of age, my friend, is to make sense of the happenings that make our lives interesting.”
                Jack smiled. “Which you’ve told me six or seven hundred times.”
                “Oui. I’ve found that I can’t answer many of those questions so I ask them. It’s my contribution to epistemology."

                As to the reference to "hope," hope is another necessary fiction. Hope can be inspiring, no doubt, but it still has not gotten me to win a lotto.
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          • Posted by 9 years, 12 months ago
            Not at all. There are many here (and some who don't make it an issue) who are people of faith. They don't get loud (I won't say they aren't offended). I, for one, have no problem with presenting my perspective and rational for my perspective, as have some others. For presenting these rational thoughts/arguments I am often vilified. Yet there are some questions that go unanswered - such as the difference between a baby 10 mins prior to being born and 10 mins after. This, O's conveniently refuse to provide a rational argument.
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  • Posted by Zenphamy 10 years ago
    Who said he's an atheist? He certainly doesn't sound like an Objectivist. He just sounds like a nut.
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    • Posted by barwick11 9 years, 12 months ago
      Oh come on, who else flies off the handle like that besides militant atheists? Even muslims just let it slide, but militant atheists go nuts.
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      • Posted by Zenphamy 9 years, 12 months ago
        What muslims let slide is your head as they chop it off.

        What in the hell is a militant atheist?
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        • Posted by $ AJAshinoff 9 years, 12 months ago
          My own opinion on "militant atheist" based on my experiences.

          Someone who cannot tolerate anyone else believing in anything but nothingness to the point of mocking and ridiculing anyone who does. Violence could factor in but more than likely just being obnoxiously condescending in any environment encountered (including here).
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          • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
            Believing in nothingness? Who's been obnoxiously condescending in here? I've seen a few mad Christians in here do that.
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            • Posted by $ AJAshinoff 9 years, 12 months ago
              That wasn't intended to be condescending, if it was taken so I apologize. But I think you already knew that and used my word choice to voice a point. :)
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              • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
                Lol you said "believing in nothingness". We believe in plenty, and none of it is nothingness. (However, mysticism might be nothing, but don't make me go there). Hrumph.
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                • Posted by $ AJAshinoff 9 years, 12 months ago
                  Question (seriously): What do you believe happens AFTER you die?

                  I suspect you and many other would say "Nothing, you're done; this is why you take ownership of and make the most of your life."

                  So my saying nothingness isn't inaccurate is it? God and faith may direct the conduct of the living BUT its an insurance policy against the void/non-existence. What does atheism or objectivity offer after death? Nothing. So how could I possibly offend anyone in saying nothingness?
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                  • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
                    We believe in this life, what we KNOW is real. Thinking minds, making your own happiness, taking care of your life, joy in life, learning, living THIS life and not sacrificing it for another maybe life... that is not "nothingness". My life is not nothingness. The possibility of an after life is a big maybe...and big maybes are possibility nothingness.
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                    • Posted by 9 years, 12 months ago
                      Do you think that people of faith don't believe in "this life?" Everything that you espouse can be said of theists as well. What will happen tomorrow is a big maybe, does that mean you don't take actions today that will, you hope, help you tomorrow? I think your arguments are without fundamental difference.
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                      • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
                        They live their lives always with the "after life" in mind. That is living for a big maybe. Their goal is to reach some standard that will reward the next life. That is living for something other than your present life. A higher power who decides and grants permission based on beliefs and actions while on earth. Not the same as living your own life for the sake of your own happiness, in reality of the now as your own highest power...while you're alive this one time in existence.
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                        • Posted by 9 years, 12 months ago
                          You are so simplistic in your understanding of those with faith. I, for one (and I think that I speak for many faithful), do not live our lives merely in the expectation of the "after life" as you specify. We live our lives by a philosophy of kindness to our fellow man. A spirit of good will. We believe that living such will bring a reward in the after-life. If we are wrong, what is the problem? We have ingratiated ourselves with those undeserving?
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                          • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
                            For the record, I'm familiar with faith and religious. I was raised going to church three times a week. I bought it well into adulthood, but stopped going to church when I was a teenager. So don't pretend I have no concept of faith and that you're on some higher plane of existence because you're a believer.
                            Also, I think you just made a remark about living a good life not being a waste regardless of after life stuff. I am good for the sake of being good, my rational self interest demands it. How is that wrong either? Do you think a person can only be good if they believe as you do?
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          • Posted by 9 years, 12 months ago
            Particularly here, since they seem to believe this is an atheistic enclave.
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            • Posted by $ AJAshinoff 9 years, 12 months ago
              Nah. most here are as respectful of my views on things as I am toward theirs. The common thread between us is Rand and Objectivism. My Conservatism and my Christianity regularly bump heads with my Objectivity in here..and thats fine.

              I mention my views fairly regularly (even if I didn't, think it comes through) but I don't club anyone with it. Those who I suggest are militant are those who attack me for mentioning God or faith in any capacity.

              I was rather pleased and pleasantly surprised that my "Merry Christmas my Friends" post didn't attract militant responses.

              FYI: Rand, to my knowledge, supported atheism because of the lack of hard proof of a God (and likely how any deity favors most things against her philosophy (removing focus from man)). You can't slight Objectivists on an Objectivist website for staying true to the tenants of their philosophy.
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              • Posted by Zenphamy 9 years, 12 months ago
                AJ; One of the most direct and gracious comments on this subject that I've seen in all the time I've spent on this site.

                I salute you and belated Merry Christmas to you.
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            • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
              Should it be a Christian enclave? Objectivism.... look it up.
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              • Posted by 9 years, 12 months ago
                No, nor have I seen any here advocating for such. But there are those here who ridicule those of us of faith for our positions and insist that only atheistic ideas are proper here.

                I reiterate from the Welcome to the Gulch page: "OUR PURPOSE:
                1.We have movies to promote - Atlas Shrugged: Who is John Galt? is coming soon to Blu-ray and DVD. We need to get the word out and we want to employ your help.
                2.We have ideas to spread - We're passionate about Ayn Rand's ideas and we hope to assist in their progress by engaging in some inspired conversation.
                3.We have connections to facilitate - Have you ever wished you lived in the Gulch and could conduct value-for-value exchanges exclusively with like minded individuals? Us too. Let's."

                Nowhere there do I see this site labeled as "Objectivist" or "Atheist," do you?

                I believe that Scott (and the other producers) set this up as an open forum for those of us who support the movies - regardless our philosophical orientation, so long as we are respectful of the other members. I believe that for the most part, that has been a one-way street.
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        • Posted by barwick11 9 years, 12 months ago
          Well that's true too... I mean most Muslims in the US. But they're not usually "true" Muslims in that they don't hold to the literal teachings of the Koran.

          A militant atheist? You've never heard the term before? Someone who's just an angry, pissed off, active, vocal, "I hate God and anything anyone says related to God" atheist, one that gets in everyone's face about it at every chance they get.
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          • Posted by Zenphamy 9 years, 12 months ago
            Is that anything like a militant christian?
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            • Posted by 9 years, 12 months ago
              There are those as well. However, in the society today, militant Christians are very effectively muted, while everyone treads lightly around militant atheists. I cite the actions of the "Freedom From Religion" group. The only like example that I can think of from a supposed Christian group is the Westboro Baptist Church - and most other Christians denounce them for their actions, so they cannot really be taken as representative of Christians generally.
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          • Posted by Zenphamy 9 years, 12 months ago
            I'm just not sure how you can possibly hate something you're convinced doesn't exist.
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              Posted by barwick11 9 years, 12 months ago
              I'll probably piss you off when I say this, and you won't believe me, but the problem isn't that you don't believe in God, it's that you hate God. There's more than ample evidence, and atheists wish He would just "give a sign" or "prove it", but the Bible is full of people who said the same thing directly to Jesus, and they didn't believe in him. He didn't fit into what *they* thought He should be. We're all like that naturally.
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              • Posted by Zenphamy 9 years, 12 months ago
                Nah, I'm not pissed, but nonsense. Complete and total unmitigated nonsense. It's impossible to hate something you don't believe exists. That would be like loving the Easter Bunny or fearing the Tooth Fairy.

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          • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
            True Muslims? They are good at hiding their trueness...out of necessity of the moment... You're ill informed. I know no angry atheists either.
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            • Posted by barwick11 9 years, 12 months ago
              No, there's plenty of Muslims that aren't true Muslims. Just like there's a TON of Christians that throw the name of Christ out there, but have no love for the Gospel of Christ. Anyone can call themselves something because it makes them feel good.
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              • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
                I don't think you understand Islam or how that ideology works. And please don't compare it to Christianity.
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                • Posted by barwick11 9 years, 12 months ago
                  Dude... I fully understand Islam. What I am saying is, there are Muslims, and there are Muslims. 90-95% or more of the Muslims in the US, and probably 70% or more in the world, if it came down to it, would not lay down their life for Islam, AND, if the opportune time came to overthrow a fundamentalist Islam government, without sticking their necks out, would gladly do so.

                  The other few percent, they're the dangerous ones, because they believe the crap that the Koran says, "slay the unbeliever wherever they are", etc.

                  I don't know the true percentages for Christians, but I guarantee you more than 50% aren't truly Christians. But at least those that ARE true Christians would never do the disgusting things we see in the fundamentalist Islamists.
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                  • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
                    A) I'm not a dude.
                    B) slaying the non believers is the premise of the Quran. Any of them who say differently are lying to shield themselves. C)Why do you insist on comparing Christianity with islam? I don't understand the point if that....Although true Christians have committed their share of brutality in history. Priests mostly. Whatever a "true" Christian is anyway.... everybody thinks they're a good person no matter who you ask so who's the judge? What's the criteria? And also, to what end, ....and who cares???
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                    • Posted by barwick11 9 years, 12 months ago
                      B) Yes I know they're lying to themselves, that's exactly why I said they're not true Muslims. They're the ones I'm not worried about nearly as much as the true believers in Islam.

                      C) I'm not comparing them, if you knew who I was and my background trust me, you wouldn't think I'm saying they're similar on any level. Those "coexist" bumper stickers make me want to pull that useful idiot out of their car, grab them by the neck and say "HOW DO YOU COEXIST WITH A RELIGION THAT WILL MURDER YOU, ME, YOUR FAMILY, AND MY FAMILY, IF WE DON'T CONVERT TO ISLAM?" And if they give me any crap after that I'd also like to ask them to go tell my friends' family in Northern Iraq right now to "coexist" with them, because it must be an equally valid religion...

                      My whole point is to say there's people all over who say they're believers, but aren't.
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                      • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 12 months ago
                        No... they're lying to everybody else.
                        And how do you know what believers believe? Mind reader?
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                        • Posted by barwick11 9 years, 12 months ago
                          No, that's why I say I don't know what those %'s are. But "by their fruits shall ye know them", and anyone who doesn't believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God, that He lived a perfect life, died to take the punishment for our sins on the cross, and that in Him alone is the way to salvation, eternal life, and reconciliation with The Holy and Perfect God... anyone who doesn't believe that at a minimum is certainly not a Christian. And there's a lot of people out there who call themselves Christian that don't believe that.
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  • Posted by Joseph-C-Moore 9 years, 12 months ago
    If a Muslim says Salaam to me, I respond in kind with peace (Salaam). If a Jew says Shalom to me, I respond with peace (Shalom). If A Christian says Merry Christmas to me, I respond with Merry Christmas to you. Being civil is the order of the day, not throwing a hissy fit, ungracious reply.
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  • Posted by edweaver 10 years ago
    I think everyone is ungracious on occassion but it might be overboard to get kicked off a flight having a hissy fit over the words Merry Christmas. :)
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    • Posted by zzdragon 10 years ago
      As one who flys 100K a year I don't think it's going overboard to "kick" him off the flight. If he acts like this just getting aboard the plane how might he act once the plane is in the air?
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      • Posted by edweaver 10 years ago
        That is what I meant but can see how my words may be taken that I thought the airline did the wrong thing. I think having the hissy fit over the words Merry Christmas was overboard. I will try to choose my words better next time. :)
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        • Posted by livefree-NH 9 years, 11 months ago
          It's probably worth mentioning that the term "overboard" has a rather specific meaning while traveling on a ship, versus (or maybe also) on an airplane. Since we are talking about words now.... It's probably a good thing that they threw him "overboard" before the plane took off, instead of after.

          And still, speaking of words you can or can't say in relation to air travel, I wonder if you use a term which indicates you are a fanatical religious observer, causes grounds for taking you off a plane. This speech would include "I have a bomb in my underwear", "I'm flying this bad boy to the WTC", or "Merry Christmas". The interpretation of each of these is left to the hearer.
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  • Posted by Dan66 9 years, 12 months ago
    I'm not Irish but I don't get bent out of shape at St. Patrick's Day or when someone says "Happy St. Patrick's Day. Those who don't celebrate Christmas for whatever reason need to lighten up, and if you are in a store shopping for gifts you are being a hypocrite. So if you don't like the festivities stay the hell home.
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  • Posted by Herb7734 9 years, 12 months ago
    What has helped for me in this sometimes contentious world, is to remind myself that I'm not a militant atheist. So long as theists are not argumentative, or try to convert me by debate or stand in my way, Merry Anything is OK with me. There are times when I am tempted to jump into a discussion that I know cannot end well, because the statements being made are so ridiculous that I can actually smell them. One of my very best friends is a Born Again, dyed-in-the-wool believer. He has been working on me for 20 years. He doesn't confront me, but always makes sure that I know he's praying for me. Other than that, we have most personal philosophies in common. So..I let him get all passive-aggressive on me, because in most other ways, he's worth putting up with it.
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  • Posted by $ jlc 9 years, 12 months ago
    Unfortunately, this will be variously represented as being rude/ being atheist (though there is no proof of the latter, it fits the public view of atheistic behavior and will be assumed to be such). Probably the best response by the airline is, "We don't care about his beliefs, we just wanted someone who was emotionally unstable to not be on the plane."

    Jan
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  • Posted by DrZarkov99 9 years, 12 months ago
    I'm always puzzled by those who take offense at well-intended blessings offered by religious folk. The alternatives of either being ignored, or being cursed seem particularly unpleasant, so why would anyone prefer that?

    Equally puzzling is the attitude that one should be offended that everyone doesn't share one's own particular belief (or lack thereof). One of humanity's treasures is the variety. People like the unfriendly traveler must be either clinically depressed or deeply psychotic.
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    • Posted by 9 years, 12 months ago
      One might conjecture that those so offended aren't very secure in their beliefs, and so, anything that is in the least way challenging to them must be militantly attacked. Just my amateur psychoanalysis. Take it for what you paid for it ;-)
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  • Posted by ObjectiveAnalyst 9 years, 12 months ago
    The man should get over himself. He deserved to be tossed off the airplane. Good grief. What harm is there in wishing one a Merry Christmas? It is not as if the crew was demanding a belief in the supernatural... only wishing the man a joyful holiday. When one says, "Happy Halloween" do they demand you believe in witches, ghosts and goblins? People need to lighten up. Believe what you will, live with the repercussions and tolerate the rights of others to do likewise. You can attract more bees with honey...
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  • Posted by $ winterwind 9 years, 12 months ago
    I think, in the spirit of the season - the Solstice recently past - that the approved greeting should be "See? I TOLD you the sun would be back! Congratulations!"
    The Wizard's suggestion is that we say "Mazel Tov!" instead of Congrats. It does have a nice ring to it.
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  • Posted by term2 9 years, 12 months ago
    I can understand this guys upset actually. We are constantly bombarded by religious propaganda that not only makes no sense, but is sometimes really stupid. Christmas is some sort of religious fairy tale, that probably isnt even true. That being said, one must select the battles one fights, and in this case there was no winning to be had. He should have just not let it get the best of him. I sometimes even wonder if the proponents of Christmas are religious, or are just wishing others well (which is OK actually). Personally, I assume its the latter unless the person really gets into the religious stuff.
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    • Posted by 9 years, 12 months ago
      Nobody hogtied him down and tried to baptize him, nor were they reciting verses from the Qur'an relentlessly to him. It was a greeting in the spirit of the season. Anyone who gets so bent out of shape at simple social pleasantries is clearly militant or unstable.
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  • Posted by $ CBJ 9 years, 12 months ago
    I wouldn't be surprised if there are more examples of Christians being "ungracious" to atheists than of atheists being "ungracious" to Christians. Declaring "I'm a Christian" at your typical social gathering will be unlikely to generate any controversy or hostility. Declaring "I'm an atheist," on the other hand . . .
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      Posted by 9 years, 12 months ago
      It's not something that I ever see in normal social gatherings - that of faithful overtly being ungracious to others. On the other hand, when it is encountered that an atheist is in the group and anything comes around to a religious realm, they are often very militant and ungracious in their interactions with those who do not share that perspective. I count my own uncle among them, he and his wife ardent humanists (and by derivation, atheist).
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  • Posted by PURB 9 years, 12 months ago
    Sounds like an attention-seeking Peter Keating, making sure everyone knows he's anti-"merry Christmas," in an unspeakably tactless mood. I'd cheer as well.
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