Race in America Today...is still a cesspool
While working this morning I heard an interview on a national news tv show. The reporter was interviewing a black woman who's had a great career as a basketball coach. Cool. But, the questioning was about how tough this woman's childhood had been. She saw domestic violence, was somewhat poor. Etc. I started to think...Why are they interviewing this woman? She seemed very sharp, and well-spoken. I liked her and enjoyed hearing her speak. But...I experienced domestic violence when I was a kid. My folks were pretty broke most of my childhood. I've had a very successful, impactful career. Why not interview me? Well....I think it's because I'm expected to pull myself up by the bootstraps and get with it...due to how I look. My childhood wasn't much different. Then it dawned on me. Maybe we keep getting these stories in national tv because they are trying to remind people of color that they AREN'T SUPPOSED to pull themselves up by the bootstraps. For them to do it is supposed to be the exception. Maybe my coffee hadn't kicked in yet. But, I don't see the establishment as treating people equally on this kind of thing much. Everything must be seen through the lens of skin color with these people. Different standards based on your appearance, etc. Strange and sad realization...
And guess what else...they too, come in All colors.
Most people would not trade their problems for the problems of others if they could understand what those problems are. Life is tough. It is not good all the time. The secret is to make it as good as possible for yourself, those that depend on you and those you interact with. At best at the end the sum of your life is good and you will be pleased with your efforts. Change yourself and live morally and your world will change around you.
Next, if you are IN an all male environment, that's not discrimination. If you were BlOCKED from it, that MAY BE.
I've almost always agreed with your positions. This one, I think is poorly worded.
As human beings, being the only X in a pool of Ys (not a chromosome reference, HONEST!)... Is hard.
By design, we internalize the game "Which one of these does not belong". Even subconsciously.
But again, I will argue it is NOT discrimination. It may be Discernment. (Simply recognition that you are that X, or that someone else is that X). It means you might stand out.
But if you are there... Realize you are not OUTSIDE, being kept outside. Also realize Progress is slow.
For me... Try being the DUMBEST Person in the Galt... It hurts, but I am still allowed. :-)