Holiday Traditions

Posted by Non_mooching_artist 12 years, 1 month ago to Culture
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Hi all. Just thought I would bring something a bit lighter to the party. Does anyone have a tradition in their house for whichever holiday you may celebrate? I adopted my husband's family's tradition of decorating the tree together on Christmas Eve. We drink wine, eat cookies and salami bread, drink more wine...


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  • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 1 month ago
    When I was growing up our family tradition was for my Dad to write a poem for each of us about some embarrassing thing we had done during the year. The more embarrassing the better. He would find some trinket, or something that had to do with said embarrassing event, wrap it up, tie it with a ribbon and attach his poem to it and put it on our Christmas dinner plate. Before we ate we went around the table and each of us had to read the poem he had written and then open the gift. It was hysterical!!! A few years ago my Dad had to get two heart valves replaced and he wasn't well enough to travel to their winter home here in AZ, so, long story short, we flew back to MI for Christmas and spent it with my whole family. We of course had to do the "gag gifts" tradition at dinner just like old times and I was put in charge of the poem writing (all 14 of 'em). It was a wonderful time and great to relive that old family tradition again. :)
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    • Posted by khalling 12 years, 1 month ago
      We always piled in the car and drove into the woods to cut down a tree. There was a farmer who we paid to tramp through his forest to find the perfect tree. One year we were stuck in a blizzard on one of those steep gravel roads and dad had to get out and put chains on the tires. that was exciting. My parents were both teachers and inevitably my mom would come home for break laden with Christmas ornaments students gave her as a gift. My dad would come home with baked goods the high school girls made him. Our tree was covered with handmade items-I didn't make a one of them.
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      • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 1 month ago
        Oh yes...we used to go to a tree farm and trek all over the place freezing our butts off trying to find a tree that didn't have a bald spot, then my Dad would saw it down with his hand saw (poor guy) and then we'd drag it to the car and strap it on the roof. My tree, today, is covered in almost all hand-made ornaments, I don't think I made any of them, but I have some from my Grandma, siblings, neice, nephew, my husband, our kids (a bunch of theirs), my mom's..etc etc..chuck full of beauty she is! LOVE my tree :) Oh..and a pickle ornament that you have to hide on Christmas Eve and the first one to find it Christmas morning gets an extra present. "Hide the pickle".
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        • Posted by 12 years, 1 month ago
          We do the pickle ornament as well! My kids are all over the tree trying to find the thing first.

          We go out and cut our own tree as well. We have friends that own a tree farm here, so we hang out, have hot cider and hot chocolate, and we use a hack saw. I love the ornaments the kids have made over the years. They're my favorites!
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    • Posted by 12 years, 1 month ago
      That one of the best things I've ever heard. You must have looked forward to that with equal parts anticipation and dread!

      Love Arizona, by the way. I was just there in late September. Phoenix, and environs. (My mom lived in Peoria before she died).
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      • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 1 month ago
        Still hot in Sept...always come after November and before April :)
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        • Posted by 12 years, 1 month ago
          That it was, but it felt pretty good after the cold air here in CT. That whole, "But it's a dry heat", thing. ;-) What I liked were the water mist jets all over the place!
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          • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 1 month ago
            Ha...the water misters is what you liked. Not the cacti, or the mountains, or the authentic Mexican restaurants...no it was the misters that did it for ya. Pretty funny. Wanna know what does it for me? CLOUDS! RAIN! TEMPS BELOW 80! GETTING TO WEAR A JACKET AND LONG PANTS AND CLOSE TOED SHOES WITH SOCKS EVEN! (Why is my cap lock on??) I'm to the point of hating the sun. I'll park 3 blocks from a store if there's 4 square inches of shade to park under. A shady parking spot is golden out here. With that said, I do not miss MI winters at all. I actually had ice on my windshield one morning last week....which I wouldn't have minded so much (because of the novelty) but I was running very late already. I had to scrape! As for "it's a dry heat"....once it's over 105 hot is hot. If there's a breeze it's like standing in the path of a blow dryer because of the lack of humidity. I'll trade you a mister for some Fall leaves. :)
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            • Posted by khalling 12 years, 1 month ago
              lol. I thought the same thing! But imagine such a concept. needing, actually NEEDING water spritzing at you to feel cool outside. it is so simple, but somehow brilliant. That sun is sure a tough customer.
              But all my people are in blizzards today (Iowa and Colorado) bemoaning my 80 degrees and blue, blue sea....
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  • Posted by flanap 12 years, 1 month ago
    Yes...we have a tradition of celebrating Christmas by recognizing the sacrifice God made by sending His Son to die for us on the Cross...everything else seems to pale in comparison as Christmas gets closer.
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  • Posted by 12 years, 1 month ago
    Yes, it is getting weird. The font thing when reply is selected.

    My mom wasn't artistic. My dad isn't, nor was my stepmom.. I'm the anomaly. Want a painting? Hahaha
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    • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 1 month ago
      Post some photos of them for sure. I don't have a square inch left for more paintings...actually have some in my closet I can't find room for.
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      • Posted by khalling 12 years, 1 month ago
        there's always a place for a new painting. hey I travelled in a vintage airstream for awhile and figure out how to put them on an aluminum ceiling
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        • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 1 month ago
          I have my limits. I'm borderline cluttered already, but I love these paintings so it's worth it. Sentimental value and all that.
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          • Posted by 12 years, 1 month ago
            I am afflicted with that as well. I just gave away a ton of outgrown kids clothes, and I still need to streamline a bit more.
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            • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 1 month ago
              It feels good to purge :)
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              • Posted by 12 years, 1 month ago
                It does!
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                • Posted by khalling 12 years, 1 month ago
                  try this on for size. get rid of everything except important things like pictures and start an adventure. In fairness, I waited until my kids were through school. but now that I'm enjoying it so much, I wish I wouldn't have waited and just brought little kids along for the ride!
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                  • Posted by 12 years, 1 month ago
                    When I was 20, I sold my car, quit my job and sailed in the Caribbean for 6 months. I was paid, and it was incredible. I came home to finish college after. It was a perfect time to semi shrug at that time. I had no ties, such as a spouse or kids.
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                    • Posted by khalling 12 years, 1 month ago
                      sounds like it was a great way to spend your 20th year. You thought of shrugging at that age? Or was it just an adventure?
                      For us, it has been a decision long in coming. and we did not want to do it-I guess in that way which would mean not keeping a home base in the country of our citizenship. In our line of work, it just so happens we saw the economic writing on the wall in advance of most of the US. and it became too depressing to watch scores of our start up clients lose their shirts because of idiot laws and regulations. and few legislators listen, even ones who seem smart and savvy. So we knew that 2008 was going to hit hard and we planned. and it wasn't becasue we watched the housing bubble. That bubble could have only happened if opportunities had vanished in other sectors. It was the only place left play around with. We each other that we would try the best we could to insulate ourselves the best we could from the next collapse and that we would lower our productivity substantially, change careers to enhance our lives but to starve the beast and use the beasts' own rules to our advantage (except govt programs-I am philosophically against that). There is no Gulch in the physical sense, in my opinion. I believe places like this site give us a gulch-like comradery as well as other avenues. One of my purposes now that I have more time to devote, is to ask relevant questions of like minded individuals about what and when and how some kind of galting becomes relevant. But I will do everything in my power to not unwittingly or wittingly help the US government destroy our Constitution and the nation I grew up in.
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