Ayn Rand and Adultery

Posted by tylerhernandez09 12 years, 2 months ago to Philosophy
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I find myself very much influenced by Rand's economic philosophy, but am unable to follow her into the darkness where adultery is permitted. She seems to imply that adultery is permissible by having Taggert move from D'Anconia, to Rearden, to Galt. I understand she was never married to any of these men but she certainly had strong intimate connections with all of them; and they, fantastically, have no problems with her ditching them for the next best guy at a moments notice leaving them behind in a sort of limbo (shall we say friend-zone). I find this incredibly wrongheaded. Thoughts?


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  • Posted by mshupe 12 years, 2 months ago
    My take is that Ayn Rand was an outspoken proponent of being secure in who you are as a productive human being who lives for the sake of no one and expects no one to live for their sake. Ultimately this means that the actions of others have no bearing your self worth including the love interests of others, even a spouse. If a couple has confidence in themselves as individuals and each other as life value then if they pursue other relationships with like minded people then it is their choice and ideally would not affect the relationship. However, is this realistic?
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  • Posted by Granite_Wood 12 years, 2 months ago
    Suite Judy Blue Eyes??? Love the one your with?.... I never bought into that hippy life style either tylerhernandez09, I, too, find that incredibly wrongheaded on a lot of levels. Not to be doing it but to talk about it like it is right. If you want to be a slut be it but don't take umbrage if you get called out on it. "When so many love you is it still the same?" "It's the woman in you that makes you want to play this game." It's cop out for infidelity.
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  • Posted by CapitalismIsMyBuddha 12 years, 2 months ago
    I believe objectivism is a perfectly fine foundation for a monogamous, healthy, lifelong marriage. Traditional marriage (assuming you marry the right person for the right reasons!) is a rationally valid way to pursue your own happiness and your own success. Plenty of studies show that people who make marriage work are healthier, wealthier and happier.

    Rand used her novels to reveal her ideals for living. Just as nearly all of us probably won't go and live in a real gulch, but rather will work to ensure our labours are not absorbed by parasites, most of us need not be in a position whereby we need to go from partner to partner.
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  • Posted by Ibuiltmybusiness 12 years, 2 months ago
    As a lonely single woman, Dagne had every right to occasionally (or rarely) seek out companionship with like minded individuals. She is certainly not a slut or a bedhopper, as years went by between trysts. Again, the ideal is to find one true love, and never stray. The reality is that most are still seeking, lonely, and wondering if they ever will find that one person...
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  • Posted by silversiren 12 years, 2 months ago
    I found that quite interesting myself. Personally the other item that made me laugh was Dagny and her ability to be so brilliant, great in bed and then could fly a plane. He character became a little over the top!
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  • Posted by $ jmlesniewski 12 years, 2 months ago
    As for the the men's reactions, Francisco had years to come to terms with what happened and much of it was due to him deciding to go on strike (and years later he still slapped Rearden over it). Rearden, on the other hand, is largely absent in part three. We only see his reaction through a letter, so we don't know what he goes through personally. Finally, and perhaps most importantly, the purpose of Atlas Shrugged is not to tell the story of heartbreak and romantic loss, so Rand did not focus on it.
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  • Posted by $ jmlesniewski 12 years, 2 months ago
    First, context must be taken into account. Dagny was with Francisco when she was a teenager. She was with Rearden much later (her 30s). Likewise, a long period of time (years?) passes between when she was with Rearden and when she was with Galt. If anything, Rand's weakness here is not making the timeline of the novel clear.
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