That is only piece of the puzzle that we/you need to stop going along with (if you ever did)...PC needs to be killed dead so we can have true, honest, important conversations again. People being scared to say what they're REALLY thinking is only doing us harm. I can't get people to talk about ANYthing important...so they're either scared of being perceived as insensitive or they're complete brain dead rocks without an original thought... either way...it's trouble. THAT's what SCARES ME! (And why the hell are people so damned quick to be offended? I have no tolerance for the easily offended. People need to grow up.) Sorry Spin...popped a cork there.
stupid little rituals which are just camouflage. are we having high tea or discussing what's wrong with our nation! so much is boiled down into minutia that's not importante
Ooooh. That! Good point.. I hate when I got caught in the minutia! ....wait.... minutia/meandering....? No I take that back. Sometimes I like the minutia. Don't tread on me. (And tea is nice sometimes... I've recently discovered...)
I will open her door. I will pull out her chair. I will walk on the traffic side of the road. I will carry all of her other carriables. However, holding a purse is emasculating, and is symbolic of beta-male status. I believe that a woman who cares about me will not insist on it. I will gladly guard her purse, but not hold it.
ok, occasional guarding is fine. this is kinda funny. I used to play this game in my 20s with my husband. catch me whenever I decide to fall. he warned me, several times..... and then, one time...
You should teach a class :) I used to get annoyed when my husband wouldn't hold my purse...for just a second even (many years ago, prior to marriage)...but then there were times he wanted me to carry his wallet..in my purse... I was like..UM..wait..you won't hold my purse for a split second but you want me to carry your wallet?? I lost...it's NOT the same thing...but hey I tried. lol My Dad would never hold a purse either...and he had 5 daughters.
I tested my 20 year old son the other night..."Hey, can you grab my purse?" He bent over and picked it without batting an eye. After telling him of this conversation he said, "You're my Mom...I wouldn't do it for my girlfriend." lol
I meant at the store...or somewhere.. Heck mine won't hold mine if I'm driving and his hands are empty in his lap. If I put it in his lap...it goes right on the floor. lol
I can't speak for anyone for myself but...I don't carry a gun to be sexy.... if I make a man poop things he hasn't eaten yet, ...then...mission accomplished. Hold my purse???? :)
...because dropping it isn't a quicker option? "Here, hold my purse, that man is about to kill me...hurry, take it! I need both my hands! C'mon, I'm serious I need you to hold my purse!" That's crazier than keeping it in my purse, "Wait a second, mean serial killer man, I need to dig in my purse for a second... I hope that's okay...just a sec." sigh.
...I was making a gun point. This misunderstanding that people who carry guns use them willy nilly when in fact it's only there in case an imminent threat presents itself. Only if...period. (Bob Beckel is doing this right now on the Five... clueless bastard.)
I do not feel threatened by an honest person with a weapon. I actually feel quite at ease about it.
I have felt threatened by people with guns only 3 times in my life. The last two were Oakland police officers; the first was a police officer in Spain. In all three cases, I was just standing there -- an innocent bystander, as it were. But the police officer was so out of control that I was literally worried for my life.
A gun in the hands (or purse or backpack or whatever) of an honest person is the safest thing I can think of.
That wouldn't be winning, that would coercing...and threatening. I'm not a looter! I won...(I have forgotten what we were debating, but I'll take the win all the same. lol)
Hang on... when I clicked on the uppy-pointy-thingy, it went to 3 -- so someone else took one away... it wasn't me, I swear! I did the uppy-pointy-thingy just like I said..........
A woman who doesn't *need* a man, and not only knows it, but doesn't mind *saying* it, could quickly become a decidedly unpleasant thing to have around the house.
The "need" part wasn't the point -- it was the "doesn't mind saying it" that was. If a woman "wants" a man, she can have one -- we are cheap and easy and disposable. At least in the feminist mind.
Cheap and easy, yes, disposable, no. I find the other half of my marriage to be wanted, and I look forward to seeing him every day. :-) He thinks so, about me as well.
lol cheap and easy NOW...but in the beginning? No way. Work for it and earn it lol. (Here's a conversation we JUST had... Him: "Thanks for going grocery shopping." (Big laugh from me....) Me:"You're welcome! Thanks for mowing the lawn." Bliss lol.)
This works both ways.... someone who doesn't mind having someone who's cheap deserves cheap. Have some rigid principals....and by "principles", I mean principles. (Don't be cheap, easy and disposable and you won't be treated as such.)
I will pull out her chair.
I will walk on the traffic side of the road.
I will carry all of her other carriables.
However, holding a purse is emasculating, and is symbolic of beta-male status.
I believe that a woman who cares about me will not insist on it.
I will gladly guard her purse, but not hold it.
Me too!
On left turns, doing about 50.
He sleeps in the East Wing...like a bat, hanging from the ceiling.
and then, one time...
I used to get annoyed when my husband wouldn't hold my purse...for just a second even (many years ago, prior to marriage)...but then there were times he wanted me to carry his wallet..in my purse... I was like..UM..wait..you won't hold my purse for a split second but you want me to carry your wallet?? I lost...it's NOT the same thing...but hey I tried. lol My Dad would never hold a purse either...and he had 5 daughters.
If your wife asks you to hold her purse... do you?
In the middle of a coital act...'NO'!
I have enough trouble keeping my man purse out of the way....
and keeping your shoes on
So did I.
We shop late at night...more 'parking' spaces!
She no longer asks, she knows the answer.
They normally scare the poop right out of me! and if she looks like she is in "that time of the month," I'll poop things I haven't eaten yet!
Apparently, you have zeroed in on ME... ;-)
...at least I don't *think* I am.
I do not feel threatened by an honest person with a weapon. I actually feel quite at ease about it.
I have felt threatened by people with guns only 3 times in my life. The last two were Oakland police officers; the first was a police officer in Spain. In all three cases, I was just standing there -- an innocent bystander, as it were. But the police officer was so out of control that I was literally worried for my life.
A gun in the hands (or purse or backpack or whatever) of an honest person is the safest thing I can think of.
And you didn't even have to take out your gun!
I won...(I have forgotten what we were debating, but I'll take the win all the same. lol)
Don't worry, I can give her a point and fix it, if you want.
Here it comes!