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That done, due to:
Ruling Class superiority:
* "To everyone who doesn't understand how civil rights work..."
* "I have a question to everyone here who opposes civil rights..."
* "...then allow me to educate you..."
Defining freedom by what is convenient to him:
* "To say that any and all behaviors should be permitted is not freedom..."
Supporting reprisals against those who disagree with him:
* "Take any action which helps to further or support a hate group, and you should be prepared to face the consequences."
and Constant highjacking of other's threads -
I will now be making use of the "Hide" option and hiding all of Maphesdus' posts on this thread and possibly any other which I might start.
Maphesdus is free to start his own threads on how Brendan Eich or anyone else who disagrees with him is a bigot and deserves reprisals, and I urge him to do so.
Thank you.
He is strident in his belief. One thing: The First amendment (Religion, Speech, Press, Assembly, Petition etc.) was written to protect unpopular speech, assembly, etc. since popular speech... would need no such protection. Some do not recognize, and respect this in all of it's manifestations. Free association can not dictate forced association.
That said: This being your thread, I respect your right to censor it.
Regards,
O.A.
"If you're not careful, the media will have you hating those who are being oppressed, and loving the ones who are doing the oppressing."
~ Malcolm X
April 6, 2014
"If it is unconscionable to support a company whose CEO once donated to the cause against marriage equality..."
"... why is it not unconscionable to support a candidate who opposed marriage equality as recently as 2008, and who was an integral part of an administration that embraced the Defense Of Marriage Act, signed into law by Bill Clinton?" Andrew Sullivan
http://althouse.blogspot.com/search/labe...
April 3, 2014
"If this is the gay rights movement today – hounding our opponents with a fanaticism more like the religious right than anyone else – then count me out. "
"If we are about intimidating the free speech of others, we are no better than the anti-gay bullies who came before us."
http://althouse.blogspot.com/2014/04/if-...
Andrew Sullivan on Breitbart
http://www.breitbart.com/Big-Journalism/...
This state of affairs prompted Andrew Sullivan, a gay author and columnist, to essentially accuse gay activists of quashing Eich's First Amendment rights: "The whole episode disgusts me – as it should disgust anyone interested in a tolerant and diverse society," he wrote. "If we are about intimidating the free speech of others, we are no better than the anti-gay bullies who came before us."
Respectfully,
O.A.
Thought police, here, there, and everywhere
Ruin a good man and business, without a care.
FRC:
http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/in...
NOM:
http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/in...
18 Anti-Gay Groups and Their Propaganda:
www.splcenter.org/get-informed/intellige...
Eich was discriminated against. Who else?
You need to learn that "hate" is not defined as "disagrees with the left's agenda".
Not in Italian, it doesn't.. :)
I would still like to see from your perspective, however, how society benefits from recognizing what some want to call "gay marriage". Your criticisms of other points of human behavior are not without merit, but one can't propose such a monumental change in society by focusing solely on negatives: there must be clearly defined positives to the proposed changes. I am still waiting for those to be enumerated so that we can both have a comprehensive cost/benefit analysis.
The costs are laid out and tally a fairly significant negative on the ledger. If you want your argument to succeed, you have to provide the positives that outweigh the costs in order to justify investment. Simple economic logic.
I could try to make an argument or give examples of the 'cost/benefit' comparison for 'gay marriage,' but in my experience, it's really hard to offer examples when the recipient has any kind of emotional or religious stake in the discussion, since emotion and religion trump any and all arguments or evidence. Been there, done that, wasted lots of oxygen on it.
What the hell... I'll rise to your new bait and reply...
Society benefits from recognizing gay marriage in that so much less energy would be consumed in the fight against it.
Economically, the 'gay marriage marketplace' is, in itself, a potentially lucrative market for many free-market vendors to enjoy, which they can't if so many folks are opposing its existence in the first place.
Monumental Change? Looking at the number of gays wanting to enjoy the legal rights afforded to heteros simply because laws include the term 'marriage' hardly seems like a monumental change. The percentage of most general populations just isn't large enough to justify, imnsho, the use of the term 'monumental.'
What is implicit in the first part of your second paragraph is pretty clear: the conclusion that gay marriage has few or no 'benefits' to society and therefore must be justified in terms of overwhelming positive effects.
Letting people who wish to enjoy the rights without harassment or intimidation for their actions sounds to me like a 'nice positive' with little or no downside risk.
As the cartoon over my desk puts it, "Be the 1st Couple to show that gay marriage has hurt YOUR marriage!... Grand Prize: You and your spouse will be special guests in an upcoming cartoon!"
I have yet to see or hear of any reports of 'tangible damage' to anyone's 'marriage' because gays were allowed to 'marry.' All I hear is 'fear of impact, destruction,' or whatever.
As an engineer, I'd prefer reports of the actual results of such a measurement than a million people reporting 'fear of damage.'
But, again, I also believe that if the discussion were or could be 'rational' in the first place, it would not even be able to occur.
So I'm not claiming victory OR loss... I'm just admitting that the game isn't fun to play any more.
Cheers!
Using the same logic, society should just give up on the Constitution and devolve into totalitarianism. Women shouldn't attempt to protect themselves from rapists and just accept their helplessness (that one was used by a Colorado politician arguing against concealed carry). People should just accept government corruption as a fact of life. Those arguments fall along the same line as your proposition, yet would you accept any of them? Similarly, I refuse to accept an emotional plea to apathy as a rational argument with any validity whatsoever.
"Monumental Change? Looking at the number of gays wanting to enjoy the legal rights afforded to heteros simply because laws include the term 'marriage' hardly seems like a monumental change. The percentage of most general populations just isn't large enough to justify, imnsho, the use of the term 'monumental.'"
Then you completely misunderstand the scope of this decision. Marriage is the fundamental contractual relationship in society - bar NONE. It is through marriage that society perpetuates itself and governs itself. Altering it is altering the entire makeup and definition of society and its future. That is why the "it doesn't affect you" argument is so patently false. It absolutely affects me, my children, and everyone else. It is absolutely a "monumental" change. If you believe otherwise, you believe a lie.
And once again, I will point out that marriage is not a right - it is a contract. Until you can acknowledge this fact, you will continue to believe another fundamental lie inherent in the whole "gay marriage" argument. Once you acknowledge that this is a matter of contract law, you can then be shown how it directly conflicts with actual rights - specifically the First Amendment and my right to choose to believe how I wish. You see, by using the term "gay marriage", you are trying to force me to acknowledge and accept a contractual relationship that violates the tenets of my belief. And this can not be denied. Court decision after court decision has been about whether or not religious rights trump or are subservient to a contractual agreement. If a contractual agreement is allowed to override an actual right, then the First Amendment is dead and we have all lost our right to association and religion. If you can not see how monumental that is, I can only hang my head in shock.
"What is implicit in the first part of your second paragraph is pretty clear: the conclusion that gay marriage has few or no 'benefits' to society and therefore must be justified in terms of overwhelming positive effects."
Any public policy decision - and in fact every economic decision - is based on a cost/benefit analysis. I have pointed out many of the costs involved, but I have seen you present zero concrete and tangible benefits to outweigh these costs - primarily because most of these arguments are based on false premises. Would you intentionally pay $50000 for a car that got 5 MPG or $5000 for a computer that only had an eight-bit processor when there are cars that cost $25000 that get 40 MPG and computers with 64-bit processors for $1000? I'm certainly not willing to. Now if you can show me that that car is a first-run model A personally signed by Henry Ford or that the computer was a prototype of the first HP calculator, you can demonstrate a good reason to alter my evaluation...
"Letting people who wish to enjoy the rights without harassment or intimidation for their actions sounds to me like a 'nice positive' with little or no downside risk."
Hyperbole based again on the false presumption of a non-existent right. And as pointed out earlier, which party is doing the harassing? It isn't the heterosexuals dragging the homosexuals into court because they won't make a cake for them. It isn't the homosexual church being dragged into court for refusing to open their facilities for a heterosexual ceremony.
"But, again, I also believe that if the discussion were or could be 'rational' in the first place, it would not even be able to occur."
I concurred with you when you pointed out that STD rates were rising amongst heterosexuals, did I not? The problem is that the rest of the arguments you presented are based on fallacies you seem unwilling to admit. As an engineer, you are probably aware that if you switch your J and K on an MMIC, you get the wrong logic states, do you not? So too with fallacious arguments and any decisions based on them! You are backhandedly claiming that I am not being logical, when in fact it is logic that is the worst enemy of your own arguments.
Feel free not to agree with me, but if you have any intellectual honesty, you will admit to yourself what I have pointed out and think about it. It may be that it prompts you to discover rational arguments heretofore unmentioned which support your position but which are based on truths. Please share these with me. It is very easy to get caught up in a debate and pick a side based on one random argument that sounds good at the time. I am no more immune to this any other, which is why I value feedback. Sometimes ;)
May the truth guide you. And may we all be willing to follow.
No, B, it's not that i'm giving up 'fighting the movement;' you misunderstood my statement completely. It's mere that having these "discussions" with people who think they're using good 'logic' against me just ISN'T FUN ANY MORE. I'm just abandoning the game you're playing. I support gay marriage groups and so does my (female) wife and many of our friends.
I have often mentioned that one of the key issues is EXACTLY that the term 'marriage' has been written into most laws that govern the LEGAL RIGHTS accorded to people who wish to join in a permanent living arrangement with others, and that the problems will resolve when the legal system (if unburdened from religious trappings) rewrites a LOT of current legalese to stop using the term 'marriage' and replace it with some other term. Then it's really game over for you.
And, as you close your argument, it is, as I well know, impossible for me to offer any arguments to you because you will deny them as fallacies, anecdotal, irrational or untrue.... by YOUR definitions.
So, that kind of 'discussion' is, in the end, "fruitile" as a grad student friend of mine once coined... A combination of fruitless and futile.
My life is too short to engage in fruitile 'discussions' with people who automatically reject any positions that don't agree with their own.
And that's what I meant by 'ciao.'
Ciao.
When you can show me one of my arguments that was based on a fallacy, I will readily concede the point. When you can show me one of my definitions that is off base, I will happily correct it. So far, I am still waiting for such an example.
The issue isn't that I listened to your case. The issue is that you didn't want the feedback I presented after I listened. You don't want to see the logical fallacies inherent in the arguments you presented. You got "tired" of the argument because you wanted it to succeed and found out that there was substantially less merit than you initially believed.
I bear you no ill will. There are many causes being championed in this world and every single one of them deserves a debate and discussion of merit: of choices and consequences. I salute you for being willing to champion such as you believe in. I only ask that you give grace for grace.
"My life is too short to engage in fruitile 'discussions' with people who automatically reject any positions that don't agree with their own."
A parting shot claiming moral superiority? An accusation that somehow you are impartial and that I am not? A claim that your wisdom is so divine that it needs no support or explanation? And you don't see the chutzpah in such a claim?
If your argument was logical and sound, you wouldn't need to resort to anything but logic to make your point. You would readily recognize my inferior logic but seek to enlighten my understanding by pointing it out to me, rather than attempt to denigrate me with backhanded comments such as these.
I am sorry you got "tired" of this discussion, but if you come up with a new development or a different angle, please feel free to bring it up. I believe that any principle of governance that is valid and logical will withstand the test of time, and that if it can not, then it was not a correct principle at all. Until then, I take my leave.
Moral superiority? No, just critical thinking, and your statements prove my point... Let's just take one for example...
..."Then you completely misunderstand the scope of this decision. Marriage is the fundamental contractual relationship in society - bar NONE. It is through marriage that society perpetuates itself and governs itself...."
> "Bar None"??? Ok, no discussion possible there... your mind's made up and 'don't confuse me with facts...'... circa mid 1960s when I first ran into that homily.
No, society perpetuates itself through people having babies and agreeing on mores that govern their rights and privileges. Marriage is but one legal implementation of agreed-upon mores, but to think that it is the ONLY way that ANY society can survive is ... well... it's own kind of 'moral superiority,' too.
Glad to close the thread. 'Bye!
It is a made-up persecution.
Spoiled (aka "gay") child: "Mommy hates me because she won't let me eat cat poop"
Daddy: "Cat poop is not food"
Spoiled (aka "gay") child: "But the doggy eats it!"
Daddy: [sighs and gives in]
Mommy: "I am NOT serving cat poop alongside my meatloaf!"
Spoiled (aka "gay") child: "HATER!"
When Eich donated money to a hate group and thereby helped fund persecution, he was initiating force. Therefore, any political or social action the LGBT community takes against him afterwords is a retaliation, and therefore a justifiable act of self-defense.
I only advocate a tolerance for all people. I do not advocate a tolerance for all belief systems. Some belief systems should, in fact, be radically and fundamentally altered, or even abandoned entirely.
In a fight between a pacifist and a warmonger, the pacifist rarely wins. Therefore, if you desire to actually accomplish your goals, it is often necessary to become a soldier, and embrace a militant and strategic way of thinking. As the great general George S. Patton so famously said, "The object of war is not to die for your country, but to make the other bastard die for his."
And your own personal observations, if done in a casual and non-investigative manner, constitute nothing more than anecdotal evidence, which generally isn't sufficient to prove anything on a large scale, as your own personal field of view is limited to a small sub-section of the world. If you want to know what things are like on a broader scale, you need to do research.
Here's some books about LGBT issues in the legal system:
http://www.amazon.com/Transgender-Rights...
http://www.amazon.com/Queers-Court-Right...
And here's a podcast talking about transgender issues:
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tran...
And here's direct links to some episodes from the podcast dealing specifically with issues of persecution:
Episode009 - http://www.trans-ponder.com/episodes/epi...
Episode060 - http://www.trans-ponder.com/episodes/epi...
Episode066 - http://www.trans-ponder.com/episodes/epi...
Episode117 - http://www.trans-ponder.com/episodes/epi...
Episode124 - http://www.trans-ponder.com/episodes/epi...
Episode144 - http://www.trans-ponder.com/episodes/epi...
Episode152 - http://www.trans-ponder.com/episodes/epi...
Episode178 - http://www.trans-ponder.com/episodes/epi...
For Maph, Mark Potok of the Southern Poverty Law Center chooses.
Oh, and while we're on the subject of Hitler, there's a very important history book that relates directly to the topic at hand, and which I think everyone here ought to read. It's called "The Pink Triangle," by Richard Plant:
http://www.amazon.com/Pink-Triangle-Nazi...
Cheers! ;)
Your basic premise is a made up LIE.
Repeating a LIE will not make it a truth.
To everyone who doesn't understand how civil rights work, just know that when you defend evils such as homophobia in the name of freedom, to civil rights advocates, you sound no different than those Islamic terrorists who hijack the concept of religious freedom in order to defend their murderous cult.
To quote Ayaan Hirsi Ali, "They will say it's because of my religion, and you need to respect my religion." The only proper response to such a stance, of course, is to say, "No, not if your religion involves killing or oppressing people. If that is how you want to behave, then you have lost your right to freedom."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O28opIDK...
Quiet all!
The mighty Maph is about to edify us!
You're saying 'homophobia is an evil'?
I think it is!
Is it evil for a Jew to fight back against a Nazi? If a particular business owner donated money to a Nazi group, and that Nazi group then tried to lobby the government to have Jews stripped of their legal rights, would the Jewish community be at fault for criticizing that business owner for his financial contribution?
Anyone with a different opinion "opposes civil rights".
I am giving it until noon today, so everyone can have a chance to read your ridiculous, thread-hijacking accusations and rants, and then I am going to use the hide function on every single one of your posts to this thread or any other thread I start.
By the way, I noticed you ignored the hypothetical question.
http://www.newyorker.com/online/blogs/cu...
From the cited article: "Amazon.com’s C.E.O., Jeff Bezos, has weighed in on gay marriage, too, by donating more than $2.5 million in support of it."
$2.5 Million vs. $1000. Who is the bigger bigot here?
Or do you want the 'logical and historical' labels applied to segregation and slavery, too? Up for that?
Maph... sorry I could only add back one upper.
They aren't any more. And as the anti-gay-marriage laws are crumbling before legal challenges (and Millennials who can't understand why old farts and religious nuts are making such a BIG deal with THEIR opposition,) all i'm saying is that the 'logic and historical' argument is still .... not logical.
Vote me up or down. I don't give a shit. Ban me from here and I'll just spend more time on things that are rewarding to me and my life.
By the way... 'union between a male and female' is LOGICAL???? Wow... Logical??? If you don't examine any premises for that 'conclusion,' shit... it's VERY "logical"... but if you do, it loses all its 'logic.'
Ciao.
On the other hand, I BELIEVE that my strong reaction comes from at least two sources... I've known and have had many homosexual friends and co-workers and I've NEVER experienced ANY of them 'making demands' that would in ANY way detract from the freedoms or rights of anyone else. So it boggles my mind that the 'other side' gets so up in arms about DENYING the right/privilege/LABEL of 'marriage' to be applied/allowed for gay people who want to enter into 'permanent' relationships which we tend to label and legalize under the term 'marriage'!
That cuts both ways, imnsho, but it seems like ONE side feels more emotionally 'threatened' by the idea and I just can not find any logical basis for such a strong reaction. "All the gays want," from my observations as an outsider to the community/group is to share in the LEGAL rights and privileges that accompany what we, today, call 'a marriage license.'
I object to 'historical justification' for denying such 'rights' because society's laws and acceptance of 'such things' does tend to change over years and decades. Things change. People change, social standards change. Many things that were taboo decades ago are more 'acceptable' today, belying previous fears that the World Will Come To An End if [whatever] happens.... Witness: "Frankly, I don't give a damn..." from Gone With the Wind...
I nor anyone I've ever experienced has EVER fit the accusation of DENYING HETERO COUPLES the 'right to use the term "marriage",' yet it seems pretty objectively clear that the converse is NOT true.
I strongly dislike that kind of dichotomy in terms of what _I_ see as 'unfair.'
So, until LAWS change or definitions or labels change so that anyone who wants to enter into some kind of 'contract to life with someone else' AND be eligible for LEGAL rights that, today accrue to 'marriage licenses,' I don't see this 'issue' being settled through these kinds of 'discussions.'
:)
At some point, not only will they demand state sanction, but they will demand sanction from religion as well. They have already done so from the more progressive religious sects. When they have achieved this from Islam, they will have finished their task (good luck with that one).
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gavEC5aW...
2) At the time of the revolution and later crafting of the Constitution, neither slavery nor segregation was the norm across the entire span of colonies, only in the south. Many of the founding fathers found slavery to be abhorrent as well, yet knew that it was an integral part of the economy of the south and so to form the union and to lay the foundation for the eventual end of slavery, they crafted these documents very carefully. They laid the groundwork for the end of slavery in the Declaration of Independence in declaring all men to be free to pursue life, liberty, and happiness. The constitution itself does not mention slavery per se.
3) You make sweeping statements that are not supported in fact. It is the case today that there is still slavery in the world. Does that mean that it is still logical?
4) Let's see, the only biologically natural way for there to be the creation of human beings - and hence the survival of the human race - is through the union of males and females, so yeah, I find that to be a logical union.
5) I've said here before, marriage has no business being regulated by the state. The Fed gov't has no constitutional authority to do so. Many of the states do not have that authority directly listed in their constitutions. "Marriage" is a religious action that has been coopted by the state in order to bestow favors. If anything you should be arguing like me that the gov't has no business at all in marriage and should extricate itself from all such entanglements.
6) If you don't like it here, you are free to leave. Nobody is enslaving you to the Gulch.
Without a view/image/perspective that acknowledges that connection, I promise you that the 'debate' will be endless. But please notice that many groups, states and legal challenges are now reversing a LOT of laws created by equally enthusiastically and committed people.
As an 'outsider,' it's been a hoot to observe the process.
Cheers!
Please start your own thread.
http://www.latimes.com/business/hiltzik/...
A CEO, as an individual, has ALL KINDS of rights, but when they become CEO, who they are and what they believe become public information AND very easily can influence the corporation itself.
The community of users, developers and all kinds of other folks expressed their displeasure, which is THEIR right, too.
Like Hobby Lobby, if you support their views and corporate leanings, shop there; if you don't, don't.
I don't.
Mozilla’s Chairman of the Board Mitchell Baker is a case study in the suppression of free speech.
"Mozilla believes both in equality and freedom of speech.”
No you don’t. You support the suppression of the freedom of speech if you don’t agree with the mind behind it. And you engaged in the destruction of an individual because his beliefs are not “equally” egalitarian as yours... in your opinion.
“Equality is necessary for meaningful speech," Tell that to Aleksandr Isayevich Solzhenitsyn or Martin Luther King. One was imprisoned in a gulag. Not much equality there, but that did not stop his pursuit of free speech and freedom.
"And you need free speech to fight for equality.”
So why are you killing it. If you don’t like the speech, or oppose someone’s support for an amendment to the California constitution (Prop 8) that won 52% of the popular vote, you must destroy them. You want to eliminate the opposition. They must be defined as evil and destroyed
“Figuring out how to stand for both at the same time can be hard."
No, IT IS NOT HARD! You just can’t be a walking taking contradiction. You can not be a person who seeks the destruction of life and productivity.
This woman is a U C Berkley educated statist drone.
Cheers.
Please start your own thread.
To say that any and all behaviors should be permitted is not freedom. It is anarchy.
And I am not an anarchist.
Fight under this banner, friends!!!
Onward, to Maphtopia!!!
He can SAY whatever he wants, sure, but that doesn't mean he can DO whatever he wants, at least not without consequences.
You have your own, unique definition of morality: whatever promotes the sexual deviancy agenda is moral and good; everything else is various degrees of immoral and evil.
Definitions and assumptions rule!
He had a job. A group applied pressure on Eich to leave.
Thus, a sanction was placed on Eich for exercising the right of free speech. The action relied on publicity and group pressure for effect and so also is a warning and threat to others who want to speak against the 'moral minority'.
So, the word 'gestapo' can be used to describe the actions of the group. The minority of Eich was not denied his equal rights, he spoke before the sanction, but unless this threat is withdrawn, all others and now Eich himself cannot speak freely.
What does that leave for me to choose?
How can my choice to not participate at the point of a gun in someone else's wants, even begin to meet the definition of persecution except in your strangely convoluted logic?
You want the freedom to be you - you've got it. Go for it. You want somehow to force me to do anything - pound sand.
You keep shouting "hate group!" trying to make the label stick.
The only "hate group" are the militant sexual deviancy advocates.
If you want to persuade anyone in a debate, it's probably best to address the ideas and concepts actually being presented, rather than playing word games and trying to confuse the debate with red herrings, which is what you're doing when you insist that a word means something other than what your opponent is using it to mean. Address the ideas, not the words.
Anyway, if you're trying to argue that no one should ever be criticized for their political contributions, you're effectively castrating all civil rights proponents, and allowing bigots to go unchecked. Were this Germany in 1930, your position would strip the Jews of their ability to defend themselves against the Nazis.
I ask this with all respect and sincerity, what "equal rights are being denied specifically.?
By using the word "real gestapo," you are also implying that there are gestapo tactics used by someone. Who is using them and how exactly? Our society has gotten so used to throwing incendiary words around and that does not further the debate. If you have an opinion, it is your responsibility to be clear on your points so that they can be debated honestly.
Fred Speckmann
commonsenseforamericans@yahoo.com
Why did you have to make me come to Maph's defense?
I started the "gestapo" thing with the limerick I posted to Mozilla's feedback page.
Follow this post's main link to read it.
The limerick, after all. is what this thread *was* supposed to be about... right, Maph?
Damn you, Fred, damn you!
First of all, I've been damned by lots of people in my life, usually by people that have trouble dealing with the truth. I usually consider it a compliment.
I looked at your limerick and frankly the word gestapo is a historical black mark on Germans for the terrible things that the gestapo did to people all over the world. Germany deserves to be remembered for these terrible actions that they allowed their government to commit. I say this as a German born U.S. Citizen. Death and extermination was their mission and it is offensive to use it in a limerick or for that matter to use the term to demonize anyone of different political persuasion.
Furthermore, when I wrote my response to Maphesdus, I used the words, “with respect.” apparently some on this have trouble with criticism or disagreement. Frankly that is a surprise to me. Of course considering the subject that was being discussed, I shouldn't have been surprised.
I'm a believer in live and let live, but a respect for privacy should also be a part of the equation. That privacy for Mr. Eich was violated by the threats made against him by the pro gay marriage people and by the the company of which he was president. A private contribution to a cause no matter what should remain private. This doesn't even take into consideration that many liberal politicians starting with President Obama and working it's way down the liberal food chain were in agreement with Mr. Eich in those days. The hypocrisy is astounding.
Fred Speckmann
commonsenseforamericans@yahoo.com
That said, the "tolerance" crowd is only tolerant of those who believe as they do. Some seem to believe that it is their "right" to force others to believe as they do, or at least to do as they would wish them to do. This is the worst sort of hypocrisy. At least for those who purport to believe in liberty.
The Nazis never would have been able to bring about the holocaust if the people of Germany had treated them and their ideas with public hostility and heated criticism.
Way to go with the slightly veiled fascist threats, Maph!
The end justifies the means, woo-hoo!
Who wins with that? Those that speak rather than those who think and reason.
I would suggest you check your sources regarding Mr. Eich's circumstances of leaving the company. He was forced to resign by the board as a result of pressure coming from the gay rights agenda crowd. It is clearly that group who can't accept other peoples opinions as the vote on the subject clearly indicated. If I remember correctly, it was the California Supreme Court that overturned the election result and one could certainly argue that it was done unconstitutionally.
My personal opinion is that Gay marriage is absurd on the face of it. It is another attempt to destroy Religion of all kinds, all of which agree that marriage has historically been between a man and a woman. If Gay people wish to emulate marriage, they can certainly join in a civil commitment called something other than marriage. WFor example, we use the term adopted father or mother instead of birth father and mother. there are many other examples of things being similar but not exactly the same.
I do agree that government should not be involved in what we call marriage, it should be strictly a concept of religion or for atheist, a civil ceremony.
fred Speckmann
commonsenseforamericans@yahoo.com
I'm personally not religious, but all of the attempts to force those who are, to go against their beliefs is very troubling. I simply fail to see what gay marriage people imagine they gain by trying to force a marriage ceremony in a church by a minister, or a private citizen to submit to them. Nothing gained from another through force is safe from another group using their force, in an endless chain of taking.
You are correct in your question about what gays will gain, your question is also the answer.
That is why the only logical conclusion can be that their purpose is to destroy the christian faith for perceived wrongs being done to gays by Christians. they can't grasp the concept of condemning the sin but loving the sinner,
As a religious faith, Islam is the most anti gay religion there is. yet they don't protest against them because they can't get away with it. they would and in fact are persecuted, jailed and in some instances executed. Does anyone believe that if a Muslim in any Muslim country were to murder a gay man, he would be prosecuted. Not likely.
The major problem with the gay activist besides what I already mentioned is that they believe that Christians want to persecute them. Nothing could be further from the truth. we believe in live and let live, but don;t constantly throw it in the face of straight people.
Fred
We've been down that thread many times.
Your suggestion of 'alternate terms that "emulate marriage" for Gays' is an interesting conundrum, though...
I've advocated that exact thing for years as a potential solution, but the bitch of the matter is that there are a shitload of LAWS that regulate a LOT of aspects of "marriage" and rights associated with the term, so unless you want to step to the forefront of the crowd and promote some new LEGAL TERM that can be applied... WOULD be applied to ALL rights and laws associated with the term 'marriage,' well... I don't think you're contributing to any solution.
And 'marriage has historically been between a man and a woman' is right up there with arguments in favor of slavery, which goes back thousands of years...
Tradition is a very weak justification for continuing to stand in the way of individuals' freedom of choice in their lives...
Or is there some 'red line' you can't cross?
Cheers!
I couldn't disagree with you more as who is trying to destroy whom.
Our society in general is trying to destroy christianity for certain in my humble opinion and I would say underlying that desire of the liberal progressives is the desire to destroy religion in general. Of course at the same time they are afraid to confront some of the fanatical believers in Islam.
My personal concern about Islam is not about their specific beliefs in the Koran, but the interpretation by some that justifies terrorism and killing in the name of Islam. May they and all other religions go in peace as I want them to let Christians go in peace.
Your belief that the gay activists don't want to destroy Christianity is a denial of the truth presented by these activists in their actions almost on a daily basis. The attack on a Catholic church is just one example among hundreds.
I'm not quite sure why you decided to place the burden of writing and passing of new laws that deal with any civil contracts to be entered into by gay couples on me. I have no cause in that department. I only oppose the usage of the word marriage to be used for the union of gay people. I would support and even fight for the rights that are often claimed to be denied to gay people such as visitation rights in hospitals.
Another “right” often claimed is the right to be on their “partners” insurance. I oppose the concept of employer provided health insurance for anyone. If the government would stay out of mandating insurance requirements for certain size businesses, then the insurance coma\panies would create what was needed in a free market.
Marriage in my belief and in the Christian faith is about the desire to create a traditional union of man and woman in order to procreate as dictated in the Bible and to announce their commitment to each other publicly. Christians that oppose gay marriage oppose the word as it has a specific meaning. Of course we live in a time when words mean nothing other than what the speaker or writer wants it to mean. We live in a world where rules mean nothing anymore. The point of a x society is to have like minded people join in a common effort to live peacefully and productively in order to better everyone’s life. This is true, at least in theory.
Your attempt to compare slavery to marriage because anti gay marriage proponents use the term traditional in their argument is absurd. There are many things that were done for thousands of years, but the general agreement now is that slavery is wrong and was therefore abolished by law.
Gay marriage is opposed on traditional grounds because there is strong disagreement among the worlds population. Here in the U.S. We have become so politically correct that many opposing views are shouted down by one side or the other because we now live in a politically correct time where the government is run by liberals and no matter what the voter says the liberal judges will overturn the vote of the people.
I stand for the rights of all people that the Constitution guarantees, no rights that anyone claims to exist that are not enumerated in the Bill of Rights. And before you claim that the constitution also allowed slavery and considered a black man only three fifths of a man, please remember that was a compromise in order to get the Constitution ratified and deal with slavery later. You can find further information on that subject by googling three fifths compromise.
Fred Speckmann
Re: Plusaf to Fred,
I couldn't disagree with you more as who is trying to destroy whom.
Our society in general is trying to destroy christianity for certain in my humble opinion and I would say underlying that desire of the liberal progressives is the desire to destroy religion in general. Of course at the same time they are afraid to confront some of the fanatical believers in Islam.
My personal concern about Islam is not about their specific beliefs in the Koran, but the interpretation by some that justifies terrorism and killing in the name of Islam. May they and all other religions go in peace as I want them to let Christians go in peace.
Your belief that the gay activists don't want to destroy Christianity is a denial of the truth presented by these activists in their actions almost on a daily basis. The attack on a Catholic church is just one example among hundreds.
I'm not quite sure why you decided to place the burden of writing and passing of new laws that deal with any civil contracts to be entered into by gay couples on me. I have no cause in that department. I only oppose the usage of the word marriage to be used for the union of gay people. I would support and even fight for the rights that are often claimed to be denied to gay people such as visitation rights in hospitals.
Another “right” often claimed is the right to be on their “partners” insurance. I oppose the concept of employer provided health insurance for anyone. If the government would stay out of mandating insurance requirements for certain size businesses, then the insurance companies would create what was needed in a free market.
Marriage in my belief and in the Christian faith is about the desire to create a traditional union of man and woman in order to procreate as dictated in the Bible and to announce their commitment to each other publicly. Christians that oppose gay marriage oppose the word as it has a specific meaning. Of course we live in a time when words mean nothing other than what the speaker or writer wants it to mean. We live in a world where rules mean nothing anymore. The point of a x society is to have like minded people join in a common effort to live peacefully and productively in order to better everyone’s life. This is true, at least in theory.
Your attempt to compare slavery to marriage because anti gay marriage proponents use the term traditional in their argument is absurd. There are many things that were done for thousands of years, but the general agreement now is that slavery is wrong and was therefore abolished by law.
Gay marriage is opposed on traditional grounds because there is strong disagreement among the worlds population. Here in the U.S. We have become so politically correct that many opposing views are shouted down by one side or the other because we now live in a politically correct time where the government is run by liberals and no matter what the voter says the liberal judges will overturn the vote of the people.
I stand for the rights of all people that the Constitution guarantees, no rights that anyone claims to exist that are not enumerated in the Bill of Rights. And before you claim that the constitution also allowed slavery and considered a black man only three fifths of a man, please remember that was a compromise in order to get the Constitution ratified and deal with slavery later. You can find further information on that subject by googling three fifths compromise.
Fred Speckmann
>>>> Wow, Fred. I would be really interested in your description or 'evidence' of any 'gay rights activists' DOING anything which looks like "trying to destroy Christianity."
If your faith, religion and belief system is so weak that the mere desire of a minority group to have equal legal rights throughout the US based on any kind of 'binding legal/moral contract' you really need to take a good, hard look at your faith.
Much in the same way, imnsho, as you bring up Islam, that any religion that is so insecure in its beliefs that they justify killings based on caricatures of their Numero Uno really is showing nothing but weakness.
I expect that you won't be petitioning your political or legal leaders to come up with a new term for that kind of 'bonding contract' which would be acceptable to you or "Christianity." I think that's a cop-out for a bunch of people who feel so 'threatened.' Offer a solution to the gay-marriage folks that wouldn't threaten Christianity. Or is your position the old one of 'Just Say No'? We know how effective THAT one was....
In the meantime, the 'attacks' on anti-gay state constitutional amendments and the findings that more and more of them to be 'unconstitutional' and being reversed or invalidated... well, that tide is rising and I don't think you or Christianity will suffer any tangible damage as a result. Only to your pride and only in your own minds' imaginations, but not in 'reality.'
Such is life. I voted against Amendment 1 in NC, and I've kept my lawn sign in the garage ever since. If the Amendment is nullified, i'm going to put the sign out in front of my house again. And i'm very patient in my waiting. After all, I've waited over 40 years of my own life to see Atlas Shrugged brought to the Big Screen.
Cheers!
And marriage is and always has been a religious ceremony. Attempting to redefine marriage - an institution that has driven civilization itself for thousands of years - absolutely constitutes an attack on religion. When you can have sex with whomever you want in the privacy of your own home - irrelevant of gender - you already have the physical side. Civil unions give you the legal stance. If you were only concerned about "equality", that should have been sufficient. But it isn't, because the end game is the subordination of religion itself. Christianity (and Islam) oppose viewing homosexuality as normal and homosexuals can't stand that, so they seek not to be tolerant of others' beliefs, but to utterly destroy them.
You want to show me your tolerance? Be content with what you have. Stop shoving it in our faces. Stop trying to legally obligate us to accept it contrary to our beliefs. You are welcome to your beliefs, but you are not welcome to try to override mine through force.
Want a marriage? Fine... go get one. Want the legal rights that come with having signed a 'marriage license,' Fine... everyone should have the right to those 'rights' too!
But so long as religionists fixate on 'marriage' being a religious thing and the 'morality' of gay marriage being a 'sin' and therefore argue against ALLOWING gays to "marry," I find the whole thing to be rife with hypocrisy.
If I suggest changing the term 'marriage license' to some other terminology which would subsume the LEGAL privileges associated with 'marriage,' even that gets thrown back at me... to me, that's clearly an unwillingness to compromise or solution. Very rigid. And I don't see THAT as a 'good thing,' either.
"But so long as religionists fixate on 'marriage' being a religious thing and the 'morality' of gay marriage being a 'sin' and therefore argue against ALLOWING gays to "marry," I find the whole thing to be rife with hypocrisy."
It isn't hypocrisy, it's religious belief and it is no less a valid belief than your belief that homosexuality is normal. They are just diametrically opposed beliefs based primarily on atheism vs theism. And since people have historically NOT been atheistic, law has historically been set up from a theistic standpoint. Considering that according to Wikipedia only 2% of the world's population is atheist, it should be no surprise to anyone that the predominant basis of law is theistic in nature.
I think a better question to ask is this: is the purpose of a change in societal structure a change for the better? If so, ANY proposed law should be examined based on the effects of the change being an improvement to society. To me, herein lies the crux of the entire argument: whether homosexuality furthers the cause of civilization itself. For me, it is THAT question that drives the entire discussion. Answer that question and you have the rationale for altering the law. Fail, and so does the argument.
Without defining 'destruction' or showing direct cause and effect? That's one difference between science and belief, too.
I could also get into the STD rates - most notably HIV - which has a 37x higher infection rate among homosexual males than in heterosexual males. Gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, herpes, etc., spread like crazy among those with multiple sexual partners. And if you want to read something scary, read the effects of these diseases. Most aren't even curable and some cause insanity. Monogamy isn't just for the religious - it's for anyone who doesn't want to contract one of these life-destroying plagues.
You could also get into the social studies which have confirmed multiple times that children are better in school, better adjusted to society, less inclined to end up in jail, etc., when raised by their biological father and mother. That's simple fact. No other arrangement is as successful in preparing the next generation for successful integration into productive society.
Then you have the legal problems that come with all the homosexual agitators, as has been discussed. There is no question that they want to destroy the rights of the religious to worship as they choose and we have evidence of that every day in the court systems.
From what I can see, there are zero beneficent results from society embracing homosexuality at all - let along recognizing homosexual unions. I may have missed something, in which case you are free to enlighten me, however.
Not to mention that it's kind of silly to say that homosexual couples "can't reproduce." We have close friends with two of the most energetic, bright, talented twins we've ever met.
Science and medicine have trumped the "can't reproduce argument" for decades. Why do you keep using it?
In fact, I have a relative who used an egg donor and her husband's sperm to conceive their second child... since they 'couldn't reproduce naturally,' should they have divorced.
The other layer of that specious 'argument' is that when my wife and I exchanged vows nearly 24 years ago, it was a few years after her hysterectomy. Since WE were getting 'married with NO possibility of creating offspring,' should we have our marriage annulled or should the license not have been granted in the first place???
Please try a few arguments that are better-grounded in contemporary reality, ok?
Oh, and while venereal diseases do spread rapidly among people of all genders and flavors who have sex, they're not quite as life-threatening as they were, say, 50 or 100 years ago, either. Medicine has advanced a lot since those 'good old days.' Heck, you remind me that, before I met my wife, I dated something like 75 women and had intercourse with something like 1/3 of them or more. No VD. Sorry.
One last point... You speak of single-parent families as being the cause of so many problems.
I could easily ask whether those 'single-parent families' aren't the RESULT of other issues which might be the real root cause of the results described in the 'social studies' to which you allude.
Oh, hell, the legal problems bromide is so old it should have gray hair and wrinkles. The gay communities don't give a shit about your right to worship or marry or any such thing... ask them and see how THEY respond, not how your kindred souls agree with you over coffee... They are suing to try to attain the legal rights that people, under current laws, get when they get a 'marriage license' and a 'wedding ceremony.'
I promise you this: the times, they are a-changin' and the laws WILL change, whether you oppose them or not. The Millennials are demonstrating that already. You or I may not live to see the last of such stupid inequality laws fall, but they will, and their demise will NOT herald the end of marriage OR society.
Maybe the end of 'marriage or society AS WE KNOW IT,' but that's changed a lot over the millennia, too. Or haven't you noticed.
Thanks; it's been fun to examine your comments and to ask questions about them.
'Ciao!
Doesn't change the fact that homosexual males are still 37x more likely to get HIV, and that's from the CDC. Why are heterosexual rates rising? You have multiple partners, you place yourself at risk that rises with the number of partners. And it also should be no surprise, but most of those infections come from bi-sexuals. Do we see a pattern here? Society portrays the benefits of "free sex" but conveniently forgets to mention the costs of STD's. What makes transmission among homosexual males so much higher is the biology - the intestines are make to absorb. Simple science.
And while you can go on and on about science, the fact remains that it is not a natural process by which you are obtaining these offspring and they can NOT rely on themselves - they must have a donor of the opposite gender. You want to trumpet this as progress? That's like saying that I have to buy a yacht just to go fishing. From an efficiency standpoint, that's just plain ridiculous.
"I could easily ask whether those 'single-parent families' aren't the RESULT of other issues which might be the real root cause of the results described in the 'social studies' to which you allude."
Go do your research. The studies control for those factors.
"Oh, hell, the legal problems bromide is so old it should have gray hair and wrinkles. The gay communities don't give a shit about your right to worship or marry or any such thing... ask them and see how THEY respond, not how your kindred souls agree with you over coffee... They are suing to try to attain the legal rights that people, under current laws, get when they get a 'marriage license' and a 'wedding ceremony.'"
You go back to rights when there are none. Again, no one has the "right" to get married. Marriage is a contractual arrangement that society recognizes because of its value in perpetuating society. You want homosexual unions to attain the same legal status, time to prove that they have the same benefits. All you've done to this point is complain about my arguments, yet you have yet to offer anything that promotes your viewpoint. You want change for change's sake. That's ridiculous from both a societal and logical standpoint. You present why the change improves society - that's how you make your case.
As to your attacks on my faith and how the Christian view on gay marriage disagrees with those that wish to change the way Christians view traditional marriage, I can only say that we nor you are likely to change our minds.
Fred
And, btw, I am NOT 'attacking your faith' at all... you have every right to it and I will defend your right to practice it.
I will also exercise MY rights to politely ask questions of anyone who, in MY opinion, eschews real logic in the defense of their views and beliefs.
Ciao!
Fred
If you believe that I was attacking your faith by asking questions, that's your privilege, and, of course, you can find a bunch of people to agree with you if you make the effort.
But as I've said countless times before, Consensus is =/= [NOT equal to] Truth at all. It's just 'agreement.' Except for people for whom agreement IS = truth, unfortunately.
I just ask questions to determine if anyone can possibly respond with non-circular reasoning about the existence of their God or the whole 'how did it all start' "Creation Thingie."
I'm just curious. It's the science/engineering side of how my mind works. Just looking for answers.
consensus does not equal truth to me. the perfect example is the argument regarding mans responsibility for so called "Global Warming based on false science and grant grabbing individuals.
Of course who could question
Al Gore on anything that the brilliant former Vice President has to say on the subject. I always get a smile out of the use of the words "circular argument." I have found that is the accusation always thrown at people that disagree with people who make arguments that won't stand on their own logic.
Fred
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Are folks open to petitioning boards to take such action - yes, and I would support their ability to do so, as I support the ability of those who would oppose these groups to use their voices to do so. Ultimately, it is up to the board and the individual to come to an acceptable accommodation. I assume that they did in this case.
As for marriage in general, yes, it should be a religious issue only. If those that do not practice a religion wish to be joined thusly, then there are contractual forms of doing so. But marriage, as a privileged entity should be abolished.
Now, your rights weren't violated, cause you chose to jump off the cliff.
Like NOBODY was EVER asked to resign for the 'good of the company'.
If you think the LGBT community is being hypocritical, then allow me to educate you on a very important but oft overlooked point, which is that tolerance only works if it's reciprocal. To extend tolerance to one who seeks your destruction is to submit to your own death.
I'm sure even you could understand why the LGBT community would be unwilling to do that.
Point 1: The term gestapo is in common use regarding this incident. So, as a satirist, it is relevant.
Point 2: I have always stated that if satire doesn't piss someone off, then it's not done right. So, that someone finds my satire offensive is just a feather in my cap.
The fact that gestapo is in common use only shows the ignorance of the users. Gestapo is a specific name of an organization of the German NAZI political party that started WWII. You might remember it, it was in all the papers. Just my use of satire, please forgive me.
The Gestapo, specifically were the Geheime Staats Polizei. In English, Secret police.
It's use to describe political opponents in the U.S. Is a terrible misuse of a terrible name of people who killed thousands directly while cooperating in the extermination of millions throughout europe. Most of their direct victims were fellow German opponents to the NAZI's.
If you consider the use of the word in a bad limerick, then I can't consider you a satirist.
Furthermore, I had no knowledge of your original use of Gestapo since I was responding to Maphesdus' post.“
As to the debate of resignation versus fired, you seem to forget that we live in perilous times of political correctness where many boards of directors have no backbone and are scared of their own shadow. In addition to that, many computer and internet companies are run by liberals and they support the gay agenda. In case you haven't figured out what the extreme gay movements agenda is, it is to simply make the gay lifestyle equal which it already is, but to make it more than equal. They wish to have it recognized as the natural preferred way of life and make it above equal.
Whenever the words, asked to resign appear, it is simply a euphemism for fired.
Fred Speckmann
You can consider whatever you'd like, Fred.
"Furthermore, I had no knowledge of your original use of Gestapo since I was responding to Maphesdus' post."
Exactly my point, Fred. Maph has a way of hijacking threads, which he has done here.
"Whenever the words, asked to resign appear, it is simply a euphemism for fired."
Which was also my point, Fred
Heterosexuality is accepted by 100% of the population. Homosexuality is accepted by only about 50%. To say that 50% is equal to 100% is absurd.
One point on a graph (today's numbers) do not indicate a trend, so please don't use it as a justification. That's very non-Objectivist! :)
<Inigo Montoya>You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.</Inigo Montoya>
You love to pontificate about bigotry and rights, yet you have no idea what you are even talking about.
Marriage is a specialized social contract - an agreement between two people recognized by society. Contracts aren't rights. That's definitional law.
If you add up (integrate for us geeks) the oppressive actions over a historical period (e.g. last 50, 100, 500, 1,000 yrs), these actions have been by the other side (e.g. against LGBT), largely religious and most often supported by government institutions.
Unfortunately, we are dealing with the backlash/pendulum swing in the opposite direction. Hopefully the oscillating system is well-damped, and we'll reach a simple free steady-state... but I doubt it, because public arguments are made to appeal to freedom for everyone. They more often support: "my freedoms are important, and yours are evil". Guns vs sodomy for example.
Death from sodomy is rare. Death by guns is unfortunately perceived to be way too common (not as bad as folks are led to believe with about half being suicides).
Whereas with abortion many from the extreme right call it "murder" too.
Real born people dead vs. what the religion (generally) of some calls "babies."
For the record I'm pro-choice on both guns and abortion. Responsible adults in America should be able to make those kinds of decisions for themselves.