Hay should I be here?

Posted by XenokRoy 9 years, 4 months ago to Ask the Gulch
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I wanted to get a little input from the community here based on the pop up message I received today to remind me about the possibility of being banned based on attacking others, or posting anything that disagrees with Objectivism.

I do try to stay away from attacking any person. I attempt to find a common ground with those I deal with so I do not think this to be a problem for me. If I ever slip and let myself do so, I apologize and likely do not realize I did so. Please let me know so I can catch myself next time I either communicate poorly or let my thoughts get the better of me.

The real point of this post is this. I do not agree with everything in Objectivism. The vast majority yes, I have found truth in it, and it has helped me define things I have always felt true but could not put into words. This has me thinking about going back to college for a philosophy degree not just to learn more about philosophy to look at others besides objectivism to better understand the whole lot.

From my perspective objectivism included within it a religion as the forced religion of the philosophy. I do not share with those the accept the full package that religion, nor will I ever do so.

I joined the site to talk with and support others who value the power of a mind, reason, free agency, self rule and a desire to earn what they get in life. By very definition a person that values these things will not ask another to live for them. I have enjoyed many threads of conversation on this site. My preference is to continue to do so. I wonder though based on the pop up and site agreement if I should continue to participate.

The pop up has made me wonder: Is it the preference of this community that a person such as myself that combines a different religion (not Atheism) with Objectivism in there life not be part of this community?


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  • Posted by ObjectiveAnalyst 9 years, 4 months ago
    Hello XenokRoy,
    I too was surprised today with this pop up warning.
    You and I have been conversing on these sites for some time and it would be a shame if you were to go dark. It has been my experience that you are a courteous and thoughtful contributor.
    I, for one, do not have a take it all or leave litmus test. I only expect courtesy and respectful dialog. "We can disagree without being disagreeable." Gerald Ford

    Respectfully,
    O.A.
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  • Posted by Zenphamy 9 years, 4 months ago
    Xerox; I find one thing in your post that disturbs me, not specifically with you alone. That is the statement "From my perspective objectivism included within it a religion as the forced religion of the philosophy" and that a person such as myself that combines a different religion (not Atheism) with Objectivism in their life...

    I find that attitude or statement with a few on the site and it really needs to be addressed when it comes up. Some attempt to justify their continued belief in a religion and Objectivism as comparable and justifiable by maintaining that Objectivist are atheist and call atheism a religion. An answer I've replied before may help you understand why Objectivist find that idea so objectionable:
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    "The difficulty in this arises in your first sentence in which you frame your interest with the 'anti-religion aspect of Objectivism.' Objectivism is not anti-religion anymore than it's anti-anything, other than anti-reasoning and anti-rationality. Objectivism, at it's base is pro-life (not the PC mis-definition) and pro-human. Objectivism finds our ability to determine the reality within which we live, as that available from our five senses and our ability to reason in a rationally logical manner. And further, that emotional responses must be subjected to reasoned, rationally, and logical analysis compared against reality before acting on them. Objectivism also demands identity and definition, i.e. A=A. Religion has an identity and definition (the belief in and worship of a superhuman controlling power, especially a personal God or gods) which does not equal those of philosophy (the study of the fundamental nature of knowledge, reality, and existence, especially when considered as an academic discipline.) The two are obviously separate.

    An Objectivist, sensing reality within which he lives and experiences, does not sense or experience the superhuman or superstitional gods of religions, can find no evidence or proof of such beings, and therefor rationally and logically, reasons that no such thing exists. Objectivist also find a set of morals which finds that altruism, as expressed in so many religions, rather than being helpful to either side of altruism is actually harmful to life and the individual and does express an antipathy towards any altruistic act or justification for such. So any belief or reliance in a religion, an anti-human and anti-life act justified by that religion, or an argument that relies on a superstional or superhuman existence or interaction with such is antithetical with philosophy, particularly that of Objectivism.

    I might suggest that rather than working backwards from Objectivist ideals and attempting to rationalize those with 37 years of religious programming, that you spend a little time looking at the basis of Objectivism, i.e. A=A, Existence=Existence."
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    The atheism of an Objectivist is in no way a religion or a counter-religion, and doesn't derive from or rely on any beliefs. Objectivists don't consider Ayn Rand as a prophet, but rather as a genius of rational thinking and brilliant in expressing in writing and speaking, the philosophy she discovered and developed. Objectivists also recognize that anyone that allows
    any belief
    to bias reasoning, logic, and rationality in any manner, regardless of how many aspects of Objectivism they find agreement with, are demonstrating their inability to fully grasp and apply completely rational and reasoned thought to ideas and issues in reality.* That to an Objectivist is an inescapable conclusion. If that can be understood, and that an Objectivist will in all probability point out where a belief is interfering with logical reasoning, there's no reason that a discussion can't take place and be enjoyable for all.
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    • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
      I appreciate your point of view but do not agree.

      I typed up several paragraphs and then deleted them. My basis in my belief system is A=A and that Existence=Existence. These concepts working forward cause me draw the conclusion that a creator has to exist. You draw a different conclusion.

      There is no way for you to prove yours or me to prove mine. If you are wrong we will talk about it later in our existence, if I am wrong it wont matter anyway.

      We can agree to disagree about the nature of Atheism.
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      • Posted by $ sjatkins 9 years, 4 months ago
        Then give your argument. If you understand A=A in its actual meaning then you don't get to just "agree to disagree" about primary reality claims. If you are claiming that the most important of all truths, which believers in God generally hold that truth to be, can be believed without truth then that is not in keeping with the rationality that "A=A" is shorthand for.
        If you are believing very very important in your own estimation things without reasonable evidence then this is not at all good for your mind or quality of life.
        We cannot "agree to disagree".
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      • Posted by Zenphamy 9 years, 4 months ago
        Xenok; I'm not trying to convince you of anything, only trying to illustrate to you what you can expect to hear from Objectivists when one perceives a 'belief bias' in a post or comment. And I don't mean that in any negative way. You asked first of all if this is a site for you and I'm trying to say that it certainly is, if you're prepared to understand what an Objectivist is and is not and what you may expect.
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  • Posted by khalling 9 years, 4 months ago
    Religion can be discussed -it 's done all the time. There are certain areas I find personally offensive and that would be advocating for the destruction of property rights or limitations on freedom. A consistent attack against Objectivism or Rand. Else why would someone want to be on this site?
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    • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
      Thanks Khalling.

      I was concerned with the rash of threads around religion that it may have triggered the pop up reminder.

      I am unlike some people in our world that would like to force a business to provide a service that business owner does wish to provide to them. I see that a a disrespect of property rights, and do not wish to be doing that here.
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  • Posted by $ jlc 9 years, 4 months ago
    I think that the pop-up warning is a response to its stated patterns of behavior that have crossed many topics over the course of many months: Ad hominum attacks and proselytizing.

    When I am amongst people who consider themselves as Objectivists, I do not characterize myself in such a fashion because I have mine own set of values, and they only partially agree with what people state to be Objectivism (which definition in turn depends on who is making the statement). When I am with the general (liberal) population I will sometimes say that I am an Objectivist or a Randist, because it is a handy shorthand for them to 'see where I am coming from'.

    I find much value in the comments of people who are marginal Objectivists, as I am. I too look forward to the 'binocular vision' provided by rational dissent.

    Jan
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    • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
      Thanks Jan,

      It seemed to me that the tone of the site had shifted a bit to "If you not a pure Objectivist, this is not for you." and that perception was reinforced by the pop up.

      I am a Christian, but I do not ever wish to come across as proselytizing (either her or elsewhere). I will state my own beliefs and find others interesting to hear as well, but if I ever come off as trying to convert someone understand that is not my intent. I greatly respect, even when I disagree with, a persons right to any religion of their choice.

      Thanks again for your comments.
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      • Posted by $ jlc 9 years, 4 months ago
        I am discovering that I, an agnostic, am getting along better with a number of the Christians in the Gulch than I am with many of my fellow agnostics/atheists. I suspect that it may have something to do with the fact that I am generally optimistic.

        I certainly have no suspicion that this pop up was aimed at XenokRoy.

        Jan
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      • Posted by khalling 9 years, 4 months ago
        Xenok, nothing could be further from the truth. There is, however, a natural dissonance which will arise. For example, give me the Christians on the site any day over the anarchos ;)
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        • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
          As this post and thread proves it is not the truth, but it was something I was wondering about.

          I have found most people here to be, well objective most of the time. Most are very good to talk to, here viewpoints from and every so often someone gives me something to think about. I love it when that happens. It is what I come here for.
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  • Posted by freedomforall 9 years, 4 months ago
    I am a thinking adult.
    If I stop being a thinking adult, notify and explain my offense to me.
    If I don't or can't comply, ban me for a cooling off period. If I persist after the cooling off period, then ban me permanently.
    If someone disagrees with Objectivism in some way, it should not be reason enough to be banned, imo, but the owner of the site has earned the right to decide. I am here with that understanding.

    If people who disagree with Objectivism in some way are always banned then they will have little opportunity to learn, contribute, and possibly accept Objectivism.
    The above is my opinion.
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  • Posted by Mamaemma 9 years, 4 months ago
    I just got the pop up warning myself, and I don't think I have been insulting to anyone. I think it's a glitch.
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    • Posted by $ jlc 9 years, 4 months ago
      I don't think it was a glitch. I think this is an example of abuse generating regulations.

      Jan
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      • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
        I have seen a couple of threads lately with some abusive name calling, and in at least one case it really surprised me who did so. I think I have filtered myself but I have to admit there have been a couple of times where the thought "what an ass" has crossed my mind on some post. Hopefully my filter has stayed intact.

        On the front of being respectful to others in our communication the pop up has merit.
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        • Posted by khalling 9 years, 4 months ago
          what is the criteria for a filter? Where does one draw the line? If the name calling is unattached from any warrant, then that makes sense. Are we to politely bow away from people who seriously work for our demise, for example? Even if they emphatically say they aren't? The President , for example. Do you have some choice words for him if you get to meet? OR all you all smiles and "thank you, Mr. President. Please stop by the Gulch tomorrow."
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          • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
            Here you go getting all philosophical on a site that has everything to do with philosophy. You gotta stop that :)

            For me the line is simple. Is the response you want to write emotional or rational. If its an emotional response take a second and turn to a rational one.

            As for the president. I would want to say "You lousy rotten American hating ass, I hope you fall down a manhole cover that has been left open find yourself wounded from the fall with an alligator that lives in the Sewers there to chase you down and give you what you deserve" that however would be a purely emotional response, and while much of it would not be a bad thing, (depends on your perspective) stating it would do nothing beneficial. Much like have a smile and stating "thank you Mr President..." other than it may make you feel better.

            However a more reasoned response would be something like "Do you know that when you first became president the average house hold income was 52k per household and today its 48k, 42k when adjusted for purchasing power due to inflation. How can you say you have been successful with the economy when the buying power per household is down nearly 25% or 10k?"

            One has rational purpose, the other none. Both effectively say he is a lousy rotten...
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            • Posted by khalling 9 years, 4 months ago
              well, if you only get that one response. lol. In here, it's a living room. Let's say you do that rational thing for a LONG time and they keep smiling and telling they are for taking away your freedoms or property rights. In an online forum, how do you tell them to hit the road, jackass?
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              • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
                Well in that case they have not listened to my rational questions or answered them, they have smiled and told me "It will be OK, we are just going to charge you another tax. increase your tax and steal your idea..."

                I left the room, or forum after a couple times of being ignored. No sense talking to the wall. No need to recognize them further.

                If they really come to take my property, that is a harder thing. How much tyranny does a man put up with before risking everything to get rid of it? To me the even bigger question is: What plan is in place to insure that risking everything will make things better?

                Most often rebellion leads to something worse (think french revolution) and there must be a reason to believe that doing so will result in something better (think American revolution).

                The Sam Adams are needed to start a revolution, but without the a Washington who can receive power and be willing to release it, or a Payne who can motivate through words Sam Adams becomes a vehicle for a Hitler or a Neapolitan to take charge. Without a Jefferson to fight for small government even when what he would want is to small against a Hamilton who was the big government man of that day we likely fail to revolutionize the US government again towards something that promotes the individual as both a person responsible for themselves, and to face consequences of actions they take for themselves.

                If the pieces are in place and a reasonable potential for success exists, its then time to use force to counteract force to fix the issue. Its time to risk everything to get something none of us have ever seen, a free society. That wont be done in words, but in deeds and there is no proper or effective way to tell a person that wishes to take your freedoms or property by force to stop it in words which is the only weapon available in this place.

                Probably more than you were looking for. :)
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                • Posted by khalling 9 years, 4 months ago
                  nope. spot on. however, what about those who are in your living room advocating theft. and what if you find yourself having to define theft?
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                  • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
                    I have a story for you.

                    I have a small farming business on the side. My bother in-law wanted to help with it for a share of the Hay for his animals he had. I could use the help, and we agreed upon a percentage of work for a percentage of the crop.

                    On the first cutting of hay he started to load the broken bails (those that my crappy bailer did not tie correctly, have a different bailer now.) and load them in his truck. I stopped him on the way out of my field and asked him how many bails he thought were there?

                    He said about 14
                    I thought about 15 but 14 was acceptable.

                    I said ok, we can just take that out of your total. He acted put out and said these were just broken bails that we could not store. I responded then I can feed them to my cattle and we wont count it towards percentages then.

                    We then argued about things, I told him what he was attempting to do was theft he felt it was not, I broke off the arrangement for help and told him he could take those for payment on the work today. We did not talk for the next 3 years.

                    Theft is taking anything you have not earned and that the proper owner does not agree to give you.

                    If a thief is in my living room advocating we participate in some theft of some type. I would ask him or her to either recognize it as theft, explaining why I saw it as theft. If we cannot agree I will ask them to leave and likely no longer look for their company.

                    If they have actually stolen from me in my younger days they would have been lucky to walk out without a bruise or two, maybe even something broken. I have mellowed over time and have learned to hang onto the desk behind me with both hands until they leave the room. Reference intended.
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                    • Posted by khalling 9 years, 4 months ago
                      interesting story and sorry. :( but I am talking about the 3rd party kind. The kind where someone advocates raising taxes on you to balance the budget, the kind where someone supports the city taking your home by eminent domain because it is good for the community. The kind where someone tells you you can't have property because the industry won't "do as well." what about those polite people? If I am in a card game, I call out cheaters. Others walk away from the game. shrug
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                      • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
                        Well in that case, you call a spade a spade. I have a sister that is a flaming believer in Socialism. So in that case....

                        When she starts talking about how the government must take care of the poor. I say on who's dime. She responds that the government has plenty of money... conversation goes along the lines of where does the government get its money to "what if some of the people do not want to have the government do it and/or fund it. Is that theft? She answers I do not see it that way. I then describe various scenarios that are the same thing that she will see as theft and then illustrate that the same basic principles are at work with a mugger under the cover of darkness in an ally with a club and a socialist under the cover of government in tax code with the IRS. Her response I do not see it that way.

                        The coversation continues until I get this response, nearly every time at some point.

                        "Roy there is no right or wrong, just differences of opinion" which really means, I can no longer come up with any real arguments so this is my I failed and you won statement to keep from seeing reality. At that point I move on, nothing you can really do about this person unless you wish to remove them from society.
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                      • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 9 years, 4 months ago
                        The kind that advocate I have the right without explanation to take all of your rights without exception. Or like the beetles believe no one should be forced to move to where there are jobs and should be fed by the rest of in order to stay in their homes. I'm sort of marrying up Khalling above and XenokRoy below. Let them live in their world? But don't expect me to accede to the role they have assigned me. Unless you want a full plate of shrug for supper.
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              • Posted by Eudaimonia 9 years, 4 months ago
                Unless it was my forum, I wouldn't.
                Instead, I would use the "hide", "flag", or "ignore".

                On my own posts, I use my "Two Strike Policy", which works great.
                I don't know why others haven't adopted it.
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                • Posted by khalling 9 years, 4 months ago
                  well flagging polite comments in other forums aren't effective. Hitting "ignore" allows polite disrupters to do damage if people let them. Erosion. I agree that hide makes the page look peaceful. People are drawn to "hide post" like bears to honey. Two strike supports "hide." which makes it look like you do not want the debate.
                  noted on the "unless it was your forum."
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  • Posted by $ MikeMarotta 9 years, 4 months ago
    I got the same pop-up and it had nothing to do with religion. Things get out of hand here and the name-calling goes in many directions.

    But I wonder how a debate would play out between Alphonse and Gaston.

    If someone seems ignorant of history or science, is it name-calling to tell them that they are in point of fact ignorant? Do we need a list of forbidden words?
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    • Posted by Technocracy 9 years, 4 months ago
      Calling someone ignorant without evidence is a personal attack. Which what was consistently done in the thread to which you allude.
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      • Posted by SaltyDog 9 years, 4 months ago
        Which is the thread that is being alluded to Tech?
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        • Posted by Technocracy 9 years, 4 months ago
          There were two related ones, but the main disagreement was in the one LetsShrug started about Cecil the Lion. That one continued and escalated the discord from the "Jackass???" thread AmericanGreatness started.
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          • Posted by SaltyDog 9 years, 4 months ago
            Thanks.

            They didn't seem all that bad to me, but I wasn't part of the melee. But sometimes the problem is that a written statement can come off more harshly than intended and things can get out of hand.

            For the record, I had one of those pop up warnings as well, so I don't know what's up with that. Oh well...macht nichts.
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            • Posted by Technocracy 9 years, 4 months ago
              Oh, and when someone starts comparing me to Pelosi for no logical reason things have gotten real bad LOL
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              • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
                Did someone really do that?
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                • Posted by Technocracy 9 years, 4 months ago
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                  • Posted by 9 years, 4 months ago
                    /humor + sarcasm
                    Wow, what an insult. :)

                    Maybe we should start a new trend, instead of calling someone a jackass, or worse, or even more worse... we could call them Pelosi?
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                    • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 9 years, 4 months ago
                      Pelosillyni if you please. Ignore is useful when the content is tedious, repetitive, and not worth the bother. Some may apply that to moi.Especially those from the opposition. No problem. Sometimes it gets hot in the kitchen but if it's important enough you gotta be harder than woodpecker lips and gut it out. So consider the flag this way. One out of three thousand means I'm doing a pretty good job and not doing a Merry Kerry and am still sitting in the kitchen drinking coffee.

                      Pelosi -Also Known as Miss Lube Job of 1953 or there abouts and the Wicked Witch of the Left Coast. But I kinda like Comrade Benita Pelosillyni. Hard to believe it's the same one in that Calendar Girl pose.

                      And to think I could have taken on Biden.

                      Waaaaahhhhhh!
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      • Posted by $ sjatkins 9 years, 4 months ago
        It depends. If someone says that the "earth is flat" then I would call them ignorant without apology and with the evidence of their own words. Of course judgment in general is not to be cast without reason. Attack bad ideas and premises, not people.
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        • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 9 years, 4 months ago
          I'm thinking of the point of view and the resulting definition. A beetle sets out in a straight line.Throughout it's entire life sees the same stars at night the same sun in the day time. The same ups and downs in it's travels. A man does the same thing. perhaps starting on the Atlantic east coast - eventually finds the Pacific notices throughout the seasons the stars change may not notice the same occurs during the resulting days of travel all think the earth they trod is flat. Along comes Marco Polo and Galileo who really study the stars and a few others mostly crews on sailing ships. Eventually one yells "Eureka!" But is burned as a heretic.

          Some start out saying this is the same country I grew up in .....the same one Dad and Grandma and Great Grandpa talk mentioned. Sure it's changed we now travel by freeways but it's still flat and by golly what's good enough for them is good enough for me. And vote for Hillary or Bush.

          Or make much ado about next to nothing while the obvious escapes them. Until a group of people in Northern California yell "Show us we're from Eureka!"

          Meanwhile the tribe of beetles has somehow found it's way aboard a freighter and bugged out. Arriving in Tsingtao. They start marching West.

          Question is. Do they ever notice the stars have changed? All the way to the Atlantic?
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