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  • Posted by mminnick 10 years, 11 months ago
    For many years marriage was a "Church" matter, not a state mater. At some point the several states decided they needed to step in and regulate (read make $$$). The federal government has never been part of it. They (the Feds) seem to be trying to back door their entry into the process. Will their interference never end (Yes, iknow, it won't.)
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  • Posted by CircuitGuy 10 years, 11 months ago
    Whenever gov't controls something, it's another area people have to debate and come to an agreement on. This is why we have debate how schools should be run and now which medical tests should be covered by insurance. We don't have national debate on whether grocery stores should offer large size packages or whether basements should be finished or for storage.
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  • Posted by Robbie53024 10 years, 11 months ago
    1) Marriage is not a federal issue - show me anywhere in the constitution or amendments that the federal government was authorized to have anything to do with it (and don't give me equal protection or interstate commerce, those have been so bastardized as to be laughable legally) - and since there is none, then it is reserved to the states/people.
    2) Since marriage is not a federal purview, it should be stripped from the taxation system.
    3) Oklahomans (and each of the several states) should be able to enact or prohibit whatever they choose.
    4) The founders envisioned a nation where differences and variations would be rampant, and saw that as good. That would allow the maximum liberty - you could live where you found the conditions that suited you best.
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    • Posted by $ 10 years, 11 months ago
      Equal protection is the grounds on which marriage equality is spreading. I don't see how that qualifies as a "bastardization." It seems like a perfectly solid legal foundation to me.
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      • Posted by Robbie53024 10 years, 11 months ago
        I'm surprised you didn't bring up that "it's for the children" which is the only argument that deserves any modicum of debate.
        Here the question is what benefit is it to the children? Does raising children require a marriage license? Absolutely not. Does having a marriage license ensure that children are going to be raised well to be productive members of society? Absolutely not. Does the absence of a marriage license dictate that the children will always turn out to be non-productive members of society? Not so there either.
        Yes, the statistics show that "unmarried" households produce children that are non-productive members of society at an astonishingly higher rate than those who are married. But is it the license that makes the difference? No. It is the fact that there is a stable loving family structure, regardless of whether there is a piece of paper that codifies that as a state recognized union.
        If a marriage license were the key to successful children, then how the hell did we ever make it to the eighteenth century in the first place, since the marriage license is a state manufactured item used to control interracial marriage (betcha didn't know that part, did you? The marriage license as issued by a government was created originally to prevent some of what you seem to want to encourage).
        But let's get back to the poor children. One other argument might be made that marriage encourages the production of children and that is a good thing. One look at our inner cities would seem to drive a stake through the heart of that one pretty quickly. Children seem to be able to be produced at an astonishingly high rate without such a piece of paper.
        On the contrary, the marriage license is a detriment to children. It costs something to procure in the first place, thus removing resources from the potential parents. During the course of the state sanctified union the taxes paid by a married couple both having income is greater than it would be for the same amount of income taxed to two separate individuals thus removing more resources that could have been applied to raising the children. If there is an unfortunate dissolution of the union it often entails court proceedings to which resources must be devoted instead of being used for the children. Hell, I'll even go to a particularly sore spot for me - college tuition. A legally married couple suffers a much higher financial burden than does a single mother regardless of whether there is a biological father in the picture or not as long as that biological father was never recorded on a birth certificate or marriage license. Thus, I could father a child and so long as it was not legally recognized anywhere, when that child chose to go to college my financial assets would not be part of the FAFSA equation on how much "aid" that child received - regardless of whether I was a millionaire or not.
        So, I can't possibly see any argument that a piece of paper makes a whit of difference in bringing up productive members of society.
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        • Posted by MattFranke 10 years, 11 months ago
          Anytime someone says about whatever they are doing , "It's for the children," I walk away. Immediate disregard, as I think it is altruistic code designed to get you to suspend reason; and therefore, is not deserving of debate. That aside, I generally agree with your other points.
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      • Posted by Robbie53024 10 years, 11 months ago
        Now let me educate you about the "equal protection clause" of the 14th amendment. It states: "no state shall deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws." This means that the laws must be applied equally to you as well as to me. it DOES NOT mean that you and I must be treated equally in every possible situation. The ACLU has been the chief bastardizer of the clause.
        Discrimination is not only not bad, it is good. Have you ever hired somebody where there was more than one applicant, then you discriminated. Have you ever had to rank order employees, then you discriminated. Did you ever receive a raise based on performance, then you were the subject of discrimination. There is nothing inherently wrong with discrimination.
        By advocating "equal protection" for marriage what you are actually saying is that the state (in this case the federal government) has the right to dictate the terms under which you have a relationship with another human being.
        First, I see nothing in the Constitution that identifies that power as residing with the federal government. Thus, if the federal government has no legal authority to create such a law how can it be applied "equally?" This is utter nonsense and shows just how deeply the ACLU indoctrination has permeated our society.
        Equal protection = Legal laws applied equally to everyone.
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      • Posted by Robbie53024 10 years, 11 months ago
        Equal protection of what? A religious concept? That's what marriage is. And a single man/woman marriage concept is a Judeo-Christian concept. Multiple partner relationships were common in other cultures. Do you support any form of relationship: Man/Woman, Man/Man, Woman/Woman, Man/Man/Woman, Man/Woman/Woman/Woman/Woman, etc., etc., ad infinitum? If not, then you're not faithful to your "equal protection" argument.

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    Posted by Hiraghm 10 years, 11 months ago
    And the dogs in the manger are handed another gain.

    Sadly, too many people don't realize that *this* is what the gay agenda is about. Not simply giving "rights" to a persecuted minority, but destroying the traditional fabric of American society. To destroy marriage by removing its recognition from legislation is as good for them as destroying it by distorting the meaning out of all rational context.

    King Solomon was presented with two women who claimed the same baby. Each woman gave her argument, and Solomon proposed divvying up the baby, giving half to each woman (presumably dividing it bilaterally so each woman got a fair share). One woman gave up her claim to the baby in order to preserve the baby. The story delves deeply into fiction when Solomon awards her the baby, recognizing her superior moral claim.
    Because in real life, Solomon being represented by our current government, would have negated the woman's offer of surrender, and either divvied up the baby, or given it to the other woman.

    In this attempt to protect marriage from being redefined into a perversion of the institution, for the sole purpose of appeasing sick, twisted individuals (some of whom are even homosexual), the baby won't survive.
    And that's just fine with the anti-marriage crowd.

    That's how it needs to be described, btw. Not "same-sex marrige", not "marriage equality", but "anti-marriage". I'm tired of letting sicko leftists redefine the language to further their agenda.

    I'm also curious how the tax code will be changed to reflect it, if the bill is passed.
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    • Posted by Robbie53024 10 years, 11 months ago
      Marriage should be a religious activity, not a governmental one. There is no rationality for the government to sanction a "lifestyle."
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        Posted by Hiraghm 10 years, 11 months ago
        Marriage isn't a "lifestyle". It's an expression of the natural behavior of homo sapien sapiens.

        The rationality for governmental sanction is to encourage marriage for the benefits it brings to society. Calling two homosexuals cohabiting "marriage" does not bring those benefits to society.

        The *second* this passes, I'm going to "marry" myself. Or buy a dog and marry her. Or maybe my tv.

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        • Posted by Rozar 10 years, 11 months ago
          No one cares if you marry your dog. Do it. No one should stop you. Do it and stop telling other people what they can't marry.
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          • Posted by Robbie53024 10 years, 11 months ago
            Likewise by that rationale why shouldn't the government tell you what profession to be in, what college to go to, where to live. All of which would bring "benefits to society." What a closed mind.
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    • Posted by $ 10 years, 11 months ago
      This bill to remove state control over marriage was actually written and submitted by a politician who opposed same-sex marriage, so saying that this is somehow a part of the so-called "gay agenda" doesn't really hold up. You say that marriage equality should rightly be called "anti-marriage," but I have to ask, who's destroying whose marriage? Think about that...

      As for this bill, personally, I don't think it has any chance of passing whatsoever. It'll be an interesting spectacle to watch, but I fully expect it to be shot down fairly quickly, because it will be opposed by almost everyone. Gay and lesbian couples will oppose it because they view it as an attempt to deny them marriage rights, and straight couples will oppose it because they don't want their marriages to be invalidated. It will be opposed by Democrats, Republicans, liberals, progressives, and conservatives. The only groups who won't likely oppose it are libertarians and anarchists, but they're both too small in number to have any significant impact.

      There are also too many ways in which marriage ties into taxes and other matters for the proposed bill to be practical, anyway. It has no chance.
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      • Posted by CircuitGuy 10 years, 11 months ago
        "Gay and lesbian couples will oppose it because they view it as an attempt to deny them marriage rights, and straight couples will oppose it because they don't want their marriages to be invalidated. It will be opposed by Democrats, Republicans, liberals, progressives, and conservatives."
        Once the gov't is in the business of something, e.g. marriage, it costs everyone some frustration in that equal rights aren't fully respect or in that it endorses marriages inconsistent with their beliefs. But a few people who benefit from the issue make it their whole livelihoods. They're going to fight very hard to keep the gov't in that business, harder than the rest of us who find it a mild to moderate frustration.
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