like our love-hate relationship with the IRS? -- j
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What I'm seeing in your reply, and in several other replies as well, is the Party's conditioning of the sheeple to not being judgmental. I see two problems with this - one, is that the Party teaches us to only excuse failure, but it comes down really hard on any vestiges of success; and two, why should stupidity and failure be excused? Excusing them just breeds more stupidity and failure, figuratively and literally.

I know that you have our wellbing at heart; but with those hooks in her face, please, think of the customers! And the potential lawsuits! Naa, Social Services, being in charge of how others raise their kids would be the only qualified employment for her...

Ok, joking aside, let's logically dissect this issue. I was hoping that it would be self evident.
Her comment: “I start my new job today, but I absolutely hate working at day care.” This is not a case where she disliked a particular kid, a specific person, or a specific aspect of a job. She hates working at day care. Period. If you, as a teacher, hated working in a school (college, etc.), would you still think of yourself as a good teacher? Obviously, the interviewer did not pick that up, either because the person was a poor interviewer or because she was a good liar. Wouldn't you, as either an employer or a parent of the kids there, prefer to correct that error?
Now, you may consider taking care and educating small kids as a non-critical function, but many people, I am certain, will disagree with you. Especially those whose kids are at the day care center and those whose livelihoods depend on trouble-free, litigation-free and police-free functioning of that establishment. However, let's take an undeniably critical function, like surgery, for example. So, you're scheduled for a critical surgery, with certain associated risks. You don't know the doctor, since the doctor is new at the hospital. So you go home, do some internet searches, and find out that the doctor's FB page has this statement: "I start my new job today, but I absolutely hate being a doctor." No doubt, in order to not appear biased by anything (facts included) and to not allow your colleagues to judge you, you, of course, will show up for that operation on Monday morning and let the surgeon prove that biases are unfounded, right? Oh, yes, do let us know how that works out for you, would you?