The Relationship Rule

Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago to Culture

When persons have anger issue, psychologists and others often use the following to help cool down hot situations.It is taught in several different ways. This is the way I learned it.
"Never let the sun go down on your wrath. Never get into a car, a plane, or walk out of the house when you are angry.Tragedy can strike quickly and randomly, and then it is too late for apology.

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Posted by Shep941 4 years, 8 months ago

Ephesians 4:26 ... its from the Bible.

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  Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago
  
  My father was a Hebrew bible scholar. He had no choice. His father was a devoted rabbi. I don't remember, but perhaps that's where I got it from.
  
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Posted by term2 4 years, 8 months ago

Lets apply that to a substantial amount of anger over the chinese releasing this virus that they created. We should take action, the first of which is to stop paying their damn labs. The second thing should be to stop funding china through our purchases- slowly and deliberately.

When americans are attacked, we always group together and fight back. Time is now.

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  Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago
  
  No excuses for China. I say squeeze them until they cry.
  
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    Posted by term2 4 years, 8 months ago
    
    This virus thing was either an act of war, or xtreme stupidity. Either way, they should pay
    
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      Posted by Aurum79 4 years, 7 months ago
      
      Yes! I eventually learned that Evil and Stupid are hard to tell apart, Evil being harm through malevolence and Stupid harm through indifference or disease or malfunction.
      
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        Posted by term2 4 years, 7 months ago
        
        Given that herd immunity through individuals having antibodies on their own or through vaccines is the only way to end a pandemic, all this hiding under the bed really will extend the length of tgebpandemic
        
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      Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago
      
      Talk about an "Evil Empire." There is no doubt that China will cheat, steal, and scam at every opportunity and only tell the truth when caught and it's still a good bet that it will continue to lie until the truth becomes so evident that they look like fools. You cannot deal with these people one-on-one as you would with any other trading partner. You must always look out for the angle..
      
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        Posted by term2 4 years, 8 months ago
        
        Pretty much describes the leftists today
        
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        Posted by term2 4 years, 8 months ago
        
        You have hit this on the heat. Russia is like that too. Maybe it’s a hallmark of colkectivism
        
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Posted by blarman 4 years, 8 months ago

If one thinks about it in terms of control, are you going to control your anger - and thereby the response - or let the anger control you and dictate the response for you?

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  Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago
  
  What was that old saying, "I don't get mad, I get even."
  
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Posted by Abaco 4 years, 8 months ago

That's good stuff, Herb. I've gotten very good at applying a cool-headed approach in my work. We discuss very high-dollar issues at times and it's normal for people to get worked-up...making me the oddball in the discussion. Until I turned 50 I'd join in the fray...haha....

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  Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago
  
  Anger only works in certain limited circumstances and then only if one is prepared for drastic consequences.
  
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Posted by Dobrien 4 years, 8 months ago

The BW and I never went to sleep while angry with each other. It wasn’t taught to us , we just decided that would be helpful in our marriage. BTW to the worlds foremost authority
I sent you a PM titled The Staves you might have missed it so.....https://youtu.be/83oi_9Dq4Nw

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  Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago
  
  I have to limit my time at the computer of late, so it's possible. If I read it, I replied.
  
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    Posted by Dobrien 4 years, 8 months ago
    
    To the worlds foremost authority #2 . It was a pretty song from a trio of sisters out of Great Britain. Who moved to my town 4 years ago.
    Click this link to hear it. https://youtu.be/83oi_9Dq4Nw
    
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      Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago
      
      Truly lovely.A major calming effect.
      
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        Posted by Dobrien 4 years, 8 months ago
        
        Ikh bin tsufridn ir injoyd es. I am happy you enjoyed it.
        
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Posted by 25n56il4 4 years, 8 months ago

Well people attacking other people for 'violating their personal space' is a bit over the top!

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  Posted by 25n56il4 4 years, 8 months ago
  
  I liked the little 93 year old lady holding a Coors Light and a sign that read, 'I need more beer.' Someone dropped some Coors off for her.
  
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  Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago
  
  Who did that to whom?
  
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Posted by Olduglycarl 4 years, 8 months ago

I am not very good at that lately, actually the past several years...issues?...ya, I got a few.

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  Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago
  
  A few? What about issues part 1, part 2,part 3,etc.?
  Just kidding. You are the tip of the sword of destiny. Keep that anger going.
  
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    Posted by Olduglycarl 4 years, 8 months ago
    
    Thanks Herb, now to convince the old women...
    
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      Posted by Herb7734 4 years, 8 months ago
      
      If you gotta convince them, you've already lost.
      
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